Capricorn men have this reputation of being stable and security orientated in their relationships, but is this actually the truth? You might be wondering what are the signs a Capricorn man is playing you and what you can do about it.
It isn’t always easy to say with Capricorn men because they are often so focused on being successful and working on their careers that perhaps the Capricorn man just wants to hook up because that is all he has time for in his busy schedule.
So do Capricorn men sleep around? Is sleeping with a Capricorn man too soon a bad thing? Well, this all depends on your specific Capricorn man. But if you are curious to find out what the warning signs are a Capricorn man is playing you are, then keep on reading to find out more.
Do Capricorn Men Sleep Around? Are They Players?
The Capricorn man womanizer is the type of Capricorn man most women should fear. This guy is so power hungry and yearning for success that he ends up treating people very badly on the way to the top, and this includes the women he sleeps with.
However, this particular brand of Capricorn man is definitely few and far between. Most Capricorn men are quite solid and are yearning for a serious and long-term commitment. These guys actually want to settle down and start a family.
But of course, there are a few Capricorn man players who ruin the reputation of all other Capricorn men. These guys sleep around and are definitely players, however, this isn’t the norm and not something you should be too concerned about.
If you have a suspicion that your Capricorn man is a player, then he probably is because it is important that you trust your instincts, but of course, innocent until proven guilty!
Will Sleeping With A Capricorn Man Too Soon Ruin Your Shot At Love?
No, please don’t think that sleeping with a Capricorn man too soon will ruin your shot at love with him. That puts a lot of pressure on you and you don’t need that when you’re supposed to be having fun and enjoying yourself with your Capricorn man.
However, I do suggest you wait to sleep with any man. It is important that you choose to be with someone who values you and sees your worth before sharing this part of yourself with him. There is nothing wrong with waiting, and there is nothing wrong with sleeping with him soon.
Trust your instincts and what feels right and appropriate for you at the moment. Try to relax and enjoy this dating thing. It needs to be fun and easy. Love yourself first and foremost!
7 Clear Signs A Capricorn Man Is Playing You
1. Doesn’t Include You
When a Capricorn engages with a woman, he is like any other man. He either wants to find love or he’s playing around until he does find the right woman. That being said, he’s similar to the other guys I’ve talked about before.
Typically a Capricorn man includes the woman he’s into with his friends, co-workers, etc. He’ll want her to be part of his life thus being able to go out and spend time with others.
If he isn’t doing this with you, he’s likely either not ready to get to that level or he’s playing you, though Capricorn is one that will actually tell you flat out if he’s into a relationship or just wants to be “friends”.
Remember, this man has a set of morals of his own that he follows. That often means being honest with the woman he’s playing around with or is trying to bond with. Pay attention to his actions where his words aren’t and you should be able to figure out what is what.
2. Introduces You As His Friend
If a Capricorn man doesn’t have any intention of making an actual relationship with you, he’ll introduce you as his friend if you two happen to be out and bump into people he knows.
He won’t go out of his way to take you around his friends but if they happen to show up or you run into them, you’re his friend. Hearing that should actually ring a bell for you thus letting you know where his head is at.
Any man that introduces a woman he’s seeing as “a friend” is either not really ready for an actual relationship, he’s not ready to explain it, or he’s just a “friend with benefits” with her.
Watch out for any guy that claims that you’re his friend. In fact, if he says this, you should ask him what he thinks you two are and where he sees it going. At that point, he will either tell you he isn’t ready or he sees you as a friend he spends time with.
3. Won’t Tell You Anything
As with other men, Capricorn man is no different when it comes to opening up and talking. Capricorn man won’t open up unless he feels secure with the person he’s with. That takes time for him.
A Capricorn man is a slow mover when it comes to making a dating situation become more serious. He wants to be absolutely sure he’s making the right choices. That being said, he will refrain from telling a woman his deepest darkest secrets.
When he’s using someone or playing around, he won’t tell her anything personal. She will be lucky if she even can find out what he does for a living or what his zodiac sign is. He will keep most information from her.
He doesn’t want a temporary person to know anything about his life, what he does, or what he wants. It’s none of her business really. That’s how he sees it and so if you find yourself in this situation, you’re probably being played
4. Romance Doesn’t Exist
If your Capricorn guy isn’t romancing you and making you feel important to his life, he’s not really with you. When a Capricorn man is into someone, he will actually spend time making her feel special.
He will buy her nice things, take her nice places, and have some really intimate conversations of the non-sexual variety. These are things he will do with a woman he’s actually thinking of being with.
When Capricorn is away from someone he’s only having sex with or spending an occasional fling here or there with, he’s not going to spend much time getting to know her or letting her get to know him.
He’ll keep the conversation very limited and will not hint at things becoming more than what they are. In fact, you’ll find that he’s rather cold and unresponsive to you trying to be romantic with him.
5. Can’t Break Through
If you’re investing much of your heart and time in a Capricorn man who is very cold to you, he’s not into being more. It’s that simple. He’ll be happy to see you from time to time but nothing more.
Sex is something that he’ll do but he’ll detach himself emotionally so that he doesn’t get any feelings for the person he’s with. Capricorn men don’t do this very often though.
Normally a Capricorn man only wants to engage in sex with someone that means something to him or that he feels COULD mean something to him. However, he’s still a man, and that makes him bend the rules from time to time.
When you keep trying and trying to show him how much you care and are getting nothing in response, you should probably move on because he’s not interested in forming more of a bond with you.
It’s a very heartless feeling you get from him when he’s not “there” with you. He could be sitting right next to you yet be a million miles away. It’s likely he just wants to have sex and relieve his boredom.
That doesn’t sound very romantic right? It’s because it’s not. He’s straightforward in his primal needs and will seek love elsewhere when he’s just playing someone. He’ll also say things that sound really messed up at times.
6. There Is Little To No Communication
The Capricorn man by nature isn’t the chattiest or most talkative sign in the Zodiac. But, when a Capricorn man likes someone and is interested in her, he definitely makes the effort to keep the lines of communication open with her.
One of the biggest signs that a Capricorn man is playing you is that he will disappear for days on end or not respond to you when you reach out to him. He simply cuts the flow of communication between the two of you to make it difficult to get ahold of him.
A Capricorn man is usually very good at scheduling time for the things that are important to him and if he was more serious about you then he would likely be contacting you more regularly to even just check in with how you are.
He takes his relationships and romances very seriously, so when there is little to no effort from his side then there is a very good chance that your Capricorn man is just playing you and only wants a hook up.
7. You Can’t Rely On Him
One of the best qualities a Capricorn man usually has is how reliable and dependable he is by nature. He is one of those people who will show up whenever you need him to. He isn’t flaky usually.
However, if you have noticed that it is tough for you to rely on your Capricorn man, chances are good that he doesn’t really see you as someone he can be serious about. Your Capricorn man is probably just playing you.
If he promises to support you in something one moment and then never ends up doing it, then he probably isn’t very serious about you in the first place. Capricorn men always keep their promises and when they don’t, it is a problem.
You need to be able to rely on him and see him as a dependable force in your life. If you can’t, what is even the point? Don’t let this guy mess you around! You deserve someone who can show up for you!
If you have had enough of dealing with his going hot and cold behavior, I strongly recommend checking out my 30-day Capricorn Man Love Challenge… It will set you on the right path with your Capricorn guy.
When A Capricorn Man Just Wants To Hook Up (More Warning Signs He Is Using You)
8. He Doesn’t Get Jealous
When a Capricorn man just wants to hook up, he rarely gets attached to the woman he is sleeping with and this also means that he never gets jealous because the truth is, he doesn’t actually care.
Capricorn men can be quite hard and emotionally unavailable. They will do whatever they can to keep people out, it is their defense mechanism and what keeps them feeling like they are in control and the one with all the power.
If you notice that it seems like your Capricorn man doesn’t really care if you spend time with other men, the chances are he is probably just using you. Jealousy is often an indicator that a man has at least some kind of feelings towards you. So if he isn’t showing it, then he’s probably just in it for the fun.
9. You Only Hear From Him When He Wants To Hook Up
Capricorn men are very efficient and don’t waste their time faffing around. When they want something they will go for it without hesitation. This is why you might only hear from your Capricorn man when he wants to hook up.
It should then be very clear to you that a Capricorn man is using you. If you don’t hear from him any other time then chances are good that he is using you, unfortunately. This may hurt a lot especially if you have feelings for him and it feels like you can’t get more from him.
I think this is a very clear sign that your Capricorn man expects nothing more from this connection than hooking up. If you want something more with him you are going to have to put in some boundaries otherwise he is going to continue using you.
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10. He Won’t Meet With You In Public
Something fishy is going on if you have noticed that your Capricorn man only spends time with you at your place or his. Although Capricorn men are quite secretive and private when it comes to their relationships they will still go out for dinners or other activities.
If you’re never going out with your Capricorn man then there is a good chance that he might feel ashamed by the connection he has with you and this is why the two of you never end up doing anything in public.
You can tell him how this makes you feel, perhaps he just thinks that this is something you want. If he seems to not care that he never takes you anywhere then there is a good chance that your Capricorn man is playing you or just using you for sex.
11. He Acts Secretive
As I have mentioned before, Capricorn men by nature are very secretive and they like to keep things very private in their life as a rule. However, if you notice that your Capricorn man is acting even more secretive than usual then chances are good that he is just using you.
You may notice him acting weird with his phone, like stepping out to make phone calls, or getting weird when you glance at his screen. He may also not want to reveal his plans or tell you what he is doing later.
This suspicious behavior is definitely something you need to look out for you in your connection. He may be stringing you along or involved with someone else. When a Capricorn man is playing you, he will often act very secretive and sly.
What To Do When A Capricorn Man Is Just Using You For Sex
When a Capricorn man only wants sex it can be pretty heartbreaking, especially when you want something more from him. You’ve probably read time and time again that Capricorn men like to settle down and have serious relationships, but many of them are players until they meet the right woman.
It is very possible that your Capricorn man doesn’t see you as a serious prospect and this is why he is just using you for sex. If you want this to change then you are probably going to have to stop sleeping with him.
Be open and honest about how you are feeling to him. Trust me, games and manipulation don’t work that well on these guys. He will appreciate you being honest with him more than you playing games with him.
Just be straight and tell him that you realized that you have feelings for him and that you would like to have something serious with him. It is also very important that you stop sleeping with him as this will make him believe that he still has access to you. Don’t give him the benefits of commitment without the commitment.
You may also want to read: What Does It Mean When A Capricorn Man Stares At You
Are Capricorns Good In Bed?
Capricorns are very good in bed. This is because Capricorn is one of the Earth signs and out of all the signs, Earth signs tend to be the most sensual and physical out of the bunch. Capricorns understand pleasure and what it means to feel good.
It is very important for them to enjoy themselves when they give themselves a break and this is why they take it to the maximum. Sleeping with a Capricorn man is an unforgettable experience. They also tend to like to take the lead and if you like someone who is a little dominant then you’ll definitely enjoy being with him in bed.
How Does A Capricorn Treat His Woman?
When a Capricorn man commits to a woman, he really becomes one of the best partners a woman could ever dream of. He is a man with a lot of integrity and he will do absolutely whatever he can to provide a good life for her.
He takes matters very seriously in all aspects of his life but especially his romantic relationships. This man is a provider and will do whatever he can to make sure that his loved ones live the best kind of life imaginable.
If you are looking for a relationship with someone who is very reliable and dependable then the Capricorn man is really the best kind of guy out there. His work will always be very important for him as he wants to be a success and make something out of his life.
This may sometimes be quite difficult if you are the partner of a Capricorn man, but if you can start to see that he is acting this way out of love and that he does all this sacrificing for his family, then the two of you may come to a healthy understanding in the relationship.
Will A Capricorn Man Lead You On?
Capricorn men aren’t typically the type to be players or lead women on as they have many other things they are busy with in their life. These guys are very serious and you can always tell where you stand with them.
As a rule, Capricorn men are quite straightforward and to the point and you never really have to wonder where you stand with them. Some of them can be a little aloof, so don’t expect passion and fireworks from them that often, but this doesn’t mean he doesn’t care.
But just remember, there are always exceptions and some Capricorn men are players of course, especially if they have many Sagittarius placements in their charts. You can rely on a Capricorn man to always be upfront and honest.
Is Your Capricorn Man Distant After Intimacy?
Does your Capricorn man pull away or get quiet when you’ve just had a deep emotional connection? Does he seem to disappear just when you thought he was getting closer? Have you felt confused by his hot and cold behavior?
If so, then he might have an avoidant attachment style.
He could be Dismissive Avoidant and completely terrified of commitment… Or he could be Fearful Avoidant and REALLY want commitment… But get scared when he feels himself getting closer to you.
If he has either one of these attachment styles, you’re going to end up feeling extremely confused at times. And both are caused by childhood trauma.
When you can see the scared little boy inside him that had to shut down his feelings if he’s dismissive avoidant… Or have a parent not provide his needs consistently if he’s fearful avoidant…
It can make it easier to have empathy and compassion for his confusing and frustrating behavior.
But that won’t fix it.
And while advice on attachment styles can be helpful…
What you really need to stop this frustrating hot and cold cycle is to understand him better.
It will stop him from pulling back when you begin feeling closer. And it will accomplish this in only 30 days.
So no more crying yourself to sleep when he pulls back… No more feeling incredibly confused. And no more wondering what in the heck is going on with him…
Even if he has an avoidant attachment style.