So you’ve been seeing a Capricorn man who in the beginning seemed as though he was all into you and wanted to be serious then suddenly started ghosting you. Why would he do this? What can you do? Keep reading for more information on why is your Capricorn man being hot and cold.
The Need for Control
If by chance you got into this relationship or situation quickly with a Capricorn man; this may be what caused things to misfire. Capricorn men know that they should absolutely take their time.
Sometimes the temptation of someone so wonderful and level headed turns him on thus making him feel as though he’s understood. Feeling understood could make him think he’s in love when he’s only infatuated.
Going too quickly will result in him suddenly putting on the brakes. He isn’t subtle about this as some of the other signs. He will just dead stop the relationship. He may or may not even tell the person.
If he does tell her; he will tell her he doesn’t think it’s going to work and they are just too different. He probably isn’t lying when he says it either. They are high integrity people.
It will hurt for sure to hear this but if he really feels that way, that is why he says that. If he says he’s not ready for a relationship; he may opt for friendship but don’t expect him to change gears back for quite awhile.
He will for sure want to take his time before he dives back in. He knows that it’s detrimental to his survival as a person. I realize that the way he goes about thing often feels very cold.
He doesn’t mean to be. He just needs to feel as though HE is in control of his own life. By diving into a relationship too quickly; he realizes that he’s lost control of himself and that is unacceptable therefore he wants to correct it as soon as possible.
Being Pushy Pushes Him Away
If you are new to a relationship with a Capricorn man and are already trying to push him for a title, push him for commitment, or even marriage; this is grounds for dismissal.
Capricorn man is in control of himself and his life and will not let someone else try to dominate or have a say so over what he should do as well as when. You will lose him if you try to push any of these issues.
To be with a Capricorn man; you’ve got to be stable, independent, sweet, and give him the time he needs to figure out what he’s doing. Let him decide when the next step is something he’d like.
Trust me; if you’re pushy with a Capricorn man; he will ice you out quicker than you can say “oh no!”. They don’t put up with any nonsense and they don’t like being told what to do or how to do it. Be careful!
Cherish your Capricorn man and be patient. Showing him patience and great care will win his heart if that’s truly what you want. His loyalty comes with a great deal of time and honor. Show him what you’ve got!
Doesn’t Like To Be Smothered
Just as he doesn’t like to be pushed; he also doesn’t want a woman who feels she needs to attach herself to his hip either. He wants an independent woman who has her own life and is pursuing her career/life goals.
He wants to feel inspired by a wonderful woman who has herself together. Someone who needs to be by his side constantly will turn him off and he will turn cold very quickly on you.
My suggestion is that you learn to start doing things without him and having fun. He’ll appreciate this and he’ll want to get to know you better thus allowing a lasting bond to form.
Show him how much you love your life, your career, your job, or whatever you are passionate about. He is seeking someone like him that wants to be financially set for the future and wants to work hard at it.
He’s not looking to play daddy or support anyone. So if you’re looking for a father figure who will take care of you; he’s not the one. While he has strong leadership qualities, he doesn’t like lazy women.
If you show signs of being this way; he will definitely back up or just put the brake on really fast. Either way, he’s not going to keep going with you. He knows with the quickness if you’re not what he wants.
Most Capricorn men do not blow hot and cold. They are either there or they aren’t. They can be cold and they have their reasons. They also aren’t one to rush into a relationship they know they aren’t ready for.
Typically they like to start with a really good friendship that develops into more over time if both parties are on board. So with that said, he’s not one of the signs that are known for the whole “hot and cold” thing.
They get hot when they are a bit more confident in the person they want to be with. That normally takes a bit of time. If he does happen to dive into something too quickly then yes, he will get cold and back out or suggest just being friends.
It’s very rare for a Capricorn to dive right in as that’s a careless thing for him to do and he knows it. It hurts the other person and he’ll regret it. This isn’t to say that Capricorn men won’t take part in one night stands either.
If he knows it’s just sex and there are no strings attached; he may partake of this but again; this isn’t relationship related and he’s not one to lead a woman on into thinking there is more. He’s normally very careful.
I hope this helps you understand what a Capricorn man goes through with his thought process and how you may want to approach him if you want it to last.
To learn more about Capricorn man and his needs, click here. It may help you better grasp who he is and what he’ll be like going forward.