How To Make Up With A Capricorn Man After An Argument

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
If you’re constantly arguing with your Capricorn man, here's how to make up with a Capricorn man after an argument...
If you’re sick of constantly arguing with your Capricorn man, and wondering how to make up with a Capricorn man after an argument, you are in the right place.

Capricorn men have a particular reputation; everything comes second to their work, including their relationships. It can be complicated to fall in love with a Capricorn man knowing you’re going to second-fiddle for most of your relationship.

Be careful when approaching a Capricorn man after an argument, as he may not be thinking clearly and could react badly. Also, they can be pretty precise when it comes to ignoring you, especially after an argument. Let’s go over some of the most important reasons why this occurs.

There are things you should know about the Capricorn guy and how he responds to conflict. Keep reading as I will share some tips on how to effectively communicate and make up with a Capricorn man after a fight.

Arguing With A Capricorn Man — Things To Consider

Capricorn man is practical, with a serious and responsible nature. He is not an emotionally expressive person and may have a hard time expressing his feelings verbally. 

On the other hand, he can be very strong-minded, arrogant and stubborn. Let’s explore how to resolve communication conflicts with a Capricorn man.

In conflict, Capricorn men may seem cold or distant, and may have a hard time understanding your emotions, but if he wants to share his point with you, you may perceive him as cold and reserved. 

Will A Capricorn Man Fight For Love?

Yes! Capricorn man values emotional stability above all and will put an effort to form a long-lasting bond with you. Even when he seems as though he doesn’t care, he actually does care. This is why he remains loyal.

There is no better way than showing someone how you feel by your loyalty right? Keep that in mind when dating him.He’s a loyal protector and will fight for love.

Capricorn Man Ignoring Me After An Argument — What Should I Do?

It is not unusual for a Capricorn man to withdraw after an argument. This happens because he needs time to process his feelings before taking action, and he needs time alone to do so.

Give him enough time to process what’s going on. This time for him will allow you to have your thoughts on the situation too and you can find out what the best plan of action is for that particular situation. Check out the possible strategies on how to respond when a Capricorn man ignores you.

How To Make Up With A Capricorn Man After A Fight — 5 Steps To Take After An Argument

Give him time. He probably feels overwhelmed by the conflicts and needs time to reflect. In the case of a big argument where you’ve hurt his feelings or made him angry in a way, there is no way to tell how long he will remain cold toward you. He does need personal space to figure that out.

If you’re struggling to find the right words to make him feel cherished and want to share his feelings with you, I strongly recommend checking out my 100 Magic Phrases for Capricorn Man … It will set you on the right path with your Capricorn guy!

Put yourself in the focus. Try focusing on yourself and making your life path successful. When you do that you’re healing your own wounds and learning to make yourself happy. When time elapses if he really cares for you, he will return to talk. Surround yourself with positive people who will support you and encourage you to be your best self. When he learns you are not prioritizing him and that you are happy with your life he would return to you to set things right.

Be rational and calm. Keep your emotions in check. Capricorn man doesn’t like drama and you need to keep this situation as light as possible. You shouldn’t change who you are for anyone. Have feelings, but contain them around him to a certain extent. Be content and calm around him. 

Be open-minded. Try to find the middle ground. Keep the conversation alive, don’t sound needy or clingy. He wants light-heartedness in love, no hard talk, no judging and accusations. Communicate openly. Express your feelings honestly and work together to find a solution that will be mutually beneficial 

Apologize if it is necessary, especially if you have hurt his feelings. Be sincere and make sure your apology is genuine. Even if he doesn’t provide an emotional response he will value your efforts. 

How Do You Get A Capricorn Man To Chase You After A Fight? 

Radiate success! Show your ambition and drive! Because of his Capricorn Sun, he is attracted to successful, reserved and practical women who know what they want and who stand with their feet on the ground. Don’t be too available and don’t make him your whole world! That would definitely make a Capricorn man interested in chasing you.

If he really had interest in you before this mishap, he will remember that, and he will weigh the pros and cons of whether or not he should give it another chance or if he should let go.

I can almost guarantee you that if he really cared deeply for you before this happened, he will come back to you. He may tell you he’s going to have to work it out in his head, but he won’t let go of you that easily.

FAQ On Capricorn Man’s Behavior After An Argument

Are you struggling to figure out what to do about your Capricorn man and how he perceives an argument with you?

Well, luckily for you I have compiled a list of questions that might come up in your relationship. Hopefully, this can help you navigate the difficult times you might experience with your Capricorn man.

How Does A Capricorn Man Test A Woman?

A Capricorn man may observe your behavior and attitude when it comes to loyalty and commitment. He can strategize being cold and distant just to observe your emotional response to such actions. He may give you space to see how you act when you are not constantly seeking his attention.

How Long Can A Capricorn Man Go Without Talking To You?

That really depends on his planetary placements; his Moon sign, Rising sign, and how it is all connected, but generally speaking, there isn’t any set time frame.

Some want a significant amount of time and some require considerably less. It depends on the woman, the circumstances, and his level of life experience.

When A Capricorn Man Is Giving Silent Treatment — How Long To Give Him Space?

This depends on the conflict itself. Sometimes you should check in after a few days; other times it may take a few weeks. Tell him that you’ll be there for him no matter what he does. This is a very important secret to a happy relationship with a Capricorn man. Talk to each other about important things.

Once you have his mind, you will also have his heart.

What Does It Mean When A Capricorn Man Stares At You?

This is a clear indication that he is interested in you. You should respond back with a smile. Be honest and genuine. Initiate interesting and stimulating conversation with him. He values wit and intelligence.

Make Your Capricorn Man Chase You And Win His Heart In Just 30 Days…

If you’re tired of feeling frustrated and unsure about where you stand with your Capricorn man, then listen up.

Most dating advice out there won’t work with a Capricorn man. They’re different than men of other signs, and if you try to use standard dating advice, it can backfire.

But don’t worry, there’s a simple solution…

You just need to know the specific phrases to tell your Capricorn man to make him NEVER want to lose you.

In just 30 days, you can turn everything around with him and have him chasing after you.

These phrases are the key to unlocking his heart and getting him to commit to you.

Don’t waste any more time feeling insecure and unsure about your relationship.

Take action now and learn the secrets to winning over your Capricorn man.

Go here now to find out the specific things your Capricorn man needs to hear…

To make him chase you and fall deeply in love with you.

Sending you love,

Your sister and relationship astrologer,

Anna Kovach

About Author

Hi, this is Anna Kovach. I am a professional Relationship Astrologer and author of dozens of bestselling books and programs. For over a decade I’ve been advising commitment-seeking women like you and helping them understand, attract and keep the man of their dreams using the astonishing power of astrology. Join over 250K subscribers on my newsletter or follow me on social media! Learn more about me and how I can help you here.

23 thoughts on “How To Make Up With A Capricorn Man After An Argument

  1. Virgo
    I’m inlove with a capricorn married man and I been with him for 3 years. The argument was him spending to much personal time with his wife, she fedding him meals. I just want him to choose or let me walk

    1. Hi Sassy: I’m in the same boat but I’ve only been with my man for 2 months. We were friends for forever, and it just escalated sudeenly one day.
      He has already told me that he has chosen to be with me but he has so much to lose, that he may be a different man if he gives it all up…
      I don’t know what to do, but I know i will not spend 3 years to find out….may I ask why you stay? Other than the obvious “love”?

    2. Hi Sassy!

      Why are you allowing him to make you his second choice? Either you need to decide to stay or go. Pushing him to decide isn’t exactly the right way to do it. He’s going to keep you both for as long as you allow him to. You have to choose here. Either you put up with it or you walk. Capricorn man is normally dedicated to his family. Please be careful! You should check out my book “Capricorn Man Secrets” for more information.

  2. This website helps SO MUCH.
    My boyfriend of 7 months is a Capricorn (Earth) and I’m a Scorpio (Water). We have this unbreakable bond that we argue each month and make up. I try to figure out where I went wrong each time and why he seems so nonchalant in moments. It is devastating. But I understand that my deep emotions don’t correspond with his earth emotions when we’re upset. It’s definitely best to cool off and talk later.

    This has opened up my eyes to so much and makes so much sense..

    1. Hi Talaya!

      I am so glad to hear you two have found your way. Yes, you’re more emotionally visible than he is. Absolutely you two do things differently and I’m happy to hear that you both realize that and that it’s best for you two to calm yourselves then talk things through. Perfect! I wish you much happiness! You should check out my book “Capricorn Man Secrets” for more information.

    2. Hi. I’ve had 2 dates and lots of text some phone calls with a capricorn. I felt very close to him after 2nd date and texted him that but he made fun of my enthusiasm, the worst bit him calling me dope, which triggered stuff from my childhood. Then he said I was often down in texts which is not true. Often at first he seems grumpy but I don’t judge. I tried to talk with him about it to no avail. I ended up telling him to f off and put the phone down. Now I regret it. He is not answering texts or messages.

  3. Gemini

    I have a boyfriend who is CAPRICORN (ldr) we argue about something that it’s not really that big issue to argue. It’s about how we first met and just told him honestly that when I met him “I don’t like him physically” but at some point what I really meant about that is when you first met a guy on a date you don’t trust them at first and we usually look for physically but I’m not, I found something on his soul that connects with me that night and I explained it to him while were talking. On the next day he brought it up in the conversation telling me I’m sorry I’m not that attractive, I’m not for you then I started to explain it to him again and he got mad. I don’t understand why, then I seek some advice to my friends and told me I should’ve said that which later on I found it they’re right, I accepted it I made an apology and he still doesn’t wanna talk to me. The next day when I messaged him that I really wanna talk it about he responded about being insecure and telling me he’s not the one for me and I should found a guy who is physically emotionally and mentally attractive. Which made me upset? I feel hurt and doesn’t even think what I feel. I already knew the consequences with having a relationship with him but still I chose him. The next day I message him again telling him that I’m giving you space but I really need an answer as soon as possible he is worth to fight for because I love him so much. I never felt anything like this to anyone and he responded that he got recovered already, to those negative things he thought about and will talk about it with him tomorrow. I just hope he realizes that I’m really true to him and I’m wiling to take risks for this relationship as long as I know he’s true to me.

    That’s it my story!

    1. Hi Seina!

      Ouch! You hurt his ego telling him you didn’t like him physically when you met him. That’s not something like Capricorn wants to hear honey. I know you thought you were being honest but that’s very hurtful for him to hear. He probably won’t let that go for awhile as it’s a wound that is deep. I think if you want to succeed with him, you’re going to have to learn how to talk to him in a much smoother way. I would’t pressure him either otherwise he’s going to shut down. You should check out my book “Capricorn Man Secrets” for more information.

      1. Ours is a long distance relationship of 18 months. 6 months ago I found that my Capricorn man cheated on me (Virgo). We broke up for about 3 months and after him asking we decided to give the relationship another go.
        4 months later he assures me that there is no one else he is seeing. Yet he is still talking to other woman on social media. I still have trust issues and don’t know if i should believe him or not.

        1. Hi Janine!

          I am so very sorry to hear your Capricorn man was unfaithful. I know as a Virgo, that really makes you feel beyond betrayed. It will take time for him to prove himself for you to trust him again. I would tell him that him talking to other women are not giving you confidence in him and since he was the one that cheated, he is the one that has to earn your trust. If he cannot do that then you are better off without him. If you want to know more about Capricorn men, please check out my books on Capricorn Man Secrets.

  4. Libra
    Hey Anna! I was dating a Capricorn man for the past months.
    One day I threw a pencil and hit his forehead (i was doing it playfully because he was lost in his thought) that apparently left a grudge in gis head.
    He went back to his hometown and we were in LDR, one day we had a fight and he threw that event back to spice up the arguments that we were having, he wanted us to end right then and there saying that “it won’t be good for both of us to force this relationship any further” for days I’ve tried and tried to reason with him no result whatsoever. Until one day, the day of my departure (I’m leaving my home to work in Europe) before I take off, I send him a very long text on how I feel about this argument and his reaction and remind him what is our goal in this relationship on the first place. But he still stands firm on his decision saying “we still can be friends and stay in touch”
    That’s when I give him my piece of mind, telling him that “all his words are rubbish and I was too dumb to believe what he said, either he blocks my number or I block his”
    End the end I block his number, never knew what his response to.
    Help! I really need advice on how to deal with cap man!!!

    1. Hi Em!

      Oh my… ok so he thought you were being careless throwing that pencil thus it hitting his head. He probably thought “what if she had actually got me in the eye with that, how stupid”. I can guarantee this is how they think. That would also make you childish in his mind. That would lead him to feel you are not the one for him. Yes just from one incident, they can decide to shut off and shut you out. What you can do is try to remain friends and see if he cools down enough to give it another chance. Reach out and ask him how he’s doing and that you’ve been thinking of him. If you would like to learn more about Capricorn man, please read “Capricorn Man Secrets”.

  5. We met 3 months ago … but he was fast in falling for me and taking things so serious … he was possessed with me .. and he kept telling me that this is so special to him cuz he usually takes time to feel comfortable to someone and that he hasnt felt “in love” since so many years …. He suddenly got cold and i asked him whats wrong after several times he revealed that he is going through something and he wants me to bear with him and give him time … Every couple of days i check up on him but then i started to be suspicious because he started to act weird but i tried to ask it calmly with explaining my feelings … he never had a clear answer .. so i tried to change the question “ how do you want me to treat you when you say you need your time” .. but whatever i ask or say pisses him off … and conflict after a conflict made me finally ask him .. do you want me to br at your side and in your life or not??

    But he never responded… and that was it .. <\3

    1. Hi Sara!

      That’s really odd that a Capricorn would act that way in the beginning. It’s uncharacteristic. Yes his going cold is because he realized he went to fast and now realizes that he isn’t ready to move that quick. If he asks for time then just be patient and give it to him. I know it’s hard but you can do this. If you do then he’ll give you a better future. Once or twice a week say “Hi, hope you are doing well. I’m thinking of you” and then leave it there. Either he will reply or he won’t. If he does then great. If not after about a month of trying, you may just want to give up and walk away. It sounds like you’re thinking of doing that anyway. If you would like to learn more about Capricorn man, please read “Capricorn Man Secrets”.

  6. Hi,
    I have this Capricorn guy who was so eager in the beginning telling me he wants me and kept calling me daily for 2 months.. and he knows I’m already falling for him like a month ago.. but he would still call like almost 3 times a day…then all of a sudden, he told me he’s gonna stop calling completely… then I’d be surprised that he would call still but not as often.. then go back to being cold. How should I deal with this behavior?

    1. Hi Annia!

      It would seem he’s testing you to see how you endure this. If you pass his test he will give you the word. He wants to make sure you’re not going to bail on him when it gets difficult. I would tell him this game isn’t necessary and that you’re there for him and he needs to trust it. He needs to trust you. Don’t let his tests scare you off if you really care. I wish you all the best!

      1. Hi,
        I am with my capricorn love for few years now, and 2 days ago while we were having an argument i failed his ”test”. The thing is, we built a really strong relationship, and we both love each other so much. Unfortunately, while arguing i told him that I am leaving him if he doesn’t change one specific thing and there is where I failed. I then explained over the phone that I dont want to leave that i could give him my sould if he needs it, but he thinks that i am not being loyal. Now I am really afraid to lose him, I called him yesterday but he hasn’t answered the call. What should I do? I am a pisces 🙁

        1. Hi HumbleGirl!

          Well, you didn’t mention why it is that he thinks you aren’t being loyal. There had to have been something you did or said that would make him feel that way. If you don’t know what it is then ask him why he feels you aren’t loyal and express to him why you ARE loyal. Tell him you were really upset with him and got overly emotional thus giving him an ultimatum (NO Capricorn man accepts ultimatums). Tell him you are sorry and want to talk to him about it. Hopefully that helps! You might want to check out my book though for more useful information.

  7. Hi,

    I have been with a Capricorn man for 2 years. We met in Australia for a year and then since us both coming back to the uk where we both live, we have had a long distance relationship as he lives 4 hours from me. Last week we was texting fine but he wasn’t returning my calls in the evening. I did lose it at the end of the week and tried calling him a lot which may have come across a bit psycho of me. He didn’t reply to me and blocked me on everything. I tried messaging him the next day but he didn’t respond so I left it. Sunday he text me and said it was a bit much and he just needed space. I replied and said I was sorry and explained that he should take as much time as he needs. He had since unblocked me but not messaged me. I just want to know when he will message as it drives me crazy when he doesn’t speak to me and I feel this was over something very small which I apologised for. (I am a cancer)

    1. Hi CGirl!

      Yes, he sounds like a Capricorn. His time is very important to him and seeing you flip out like you did made him worry about whether or not this will work. He’s not sure if you will do it again even if you say you won’t. To avoid this type of thing though, he should have communicated with you and told you what was going on so you wouldn’t worry. It kind of goes both ways. Tell him that you need him to touch base with you even when he’s taking space otherwise you won’t know and feel hurt that he’s ignoring you. Don’t let him just do whatever while you wait around for him. There has to be compromise. If you would like to know more about Capricorn men, check out my books!

  8. I have been with a Capricorn boyfriend for a few months and our relationship is on and off. he is busy with work and we meet up only when he wants sex. We have a big fight last week over a small issue and he texted don’t contact anymore. He blocked me on all the social media channels. Will he come back?

  9. Hi, I need help trying to see what I should do. This Capricorn man added me on Facebook, we talked and got to know each other for a little over two weeks, we met up to have lunch and he talked about the future with me which is something a cap man would do. A few days later I came over to his apartment and one thing lead to another and we became very intimate that night, I even spent the entire night and left his place at 12in the afternoon the next day. He told me he’d be busy with errands and his kid, I didn’t hear back from him until the next day around 3PM and I told him that I felt used and he said that he didn’t like how that made him feel like and if that’s the case then we should just be friends. I decided to text him saying that he means a lot to me and that I would give him space and when he’s ready to talk that we should do it in person rather through text. It’s been two days now and he still isn’t responding but he’s looking at my stories or posts. What should I do?

  10. Met a Cap man a few months ago, and despite him saying he was working thru stuff and wasn’t ready to date, we saw each other every day for the first few weeks. All of a sudden cold, and eventually he called it off. I respected this and gave him the space. After a week or two he text me and we got back on track until another spell where he again created distance. He has recently admitted that before he met me, he was in an on-again-off-again relationship, and they were off again when he met me, but they met up again (when he pulled away), and he still has feelings for her. However… the bombshell is that she is married. I believe she is using for support, but it is unlikely that she will ever leave her husband. She just continues to string him along, so he is stuck in limbo and unable to fully move on with someone else. I really like him, so have been very understanding of all this, but trying to convince him to take back his power and make his own decisions. Am I handling this the right way, or should I just let him go?

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