What happens when you really piss off a Capricorn man or hurt his feelings? What should you do to ensure he won’t break it off? There are things you should know about the Capricorn guy and how he responds to conflict. Keep reading for how to keep a Capricorn man interested.
How Bad Was It? Figure it out!
Before you can really know for sure if you can get him back or keep him interested in you after you’ve gotten into an argument with him, you need to determine how bad it actually was.
What happened between you two? Did you betray him in some way? Did you just argue over something stupid? That’s what you have to look at. If it wasn’t that big of a deal then it shouldn’t be too hard to keep his interest.
He’s not going to drop you over something really dumb. Capricorn man is righteous but he’s not ridiculous. Remember, he’s a critical thinker and will analyze things before he’ll just throw love away.
If he committed himself to you, you’d have to betray his moral system or lie to him in a really underhanded way for him to give up all he’s worked for in cultivating a relationship with you.
Even if you had a nasty fight; if love is still there on both your sides then keeping him interested shouldn’t even be an issue. It takes a Capricorn man a long time to fall for someone typically. He’s cautious and won’t settle.
Looking back at your argument, was it something that in his mind was unforgivable? If it was then it may be very difficult for you to keep his interest. If it was something that is totally forgivable then there is no reason you have to work to keep interest.
Capricorn Man Grudges
Ok Earth signs are typically the ones in the zodiac that are notorious for holding onto things and manifesting grudges against people. Again, it will have to be determined on what happened that caused the fight.
If you lied to him or betrayed him in some way, he will hold it against you and even if you work hard to keep his interest, it will still be somewhere in the back of his mind what you did and he’s likely to bring it up again.
Capricorn men are like elephants. They never forget. They may forgive and they may do their best to move forward but if you really wronged them, they will not be able to forget what you’ve done and it will always be used in future arguments.
It may actually make him use the “strike” system on you depending on how bad it was. You know the saying “three strikes and you’re out”? That’s how he may operate depending on what you did that really scarred his heart.
It’s hard to work against the Capricorn man’s grudges. If you’ve done something that really messed with his head, he may never get past it even if he tries to make it work with you.
He’ll need some time to try to heal and while he’s doing that, you need to give him space. If you don’t you’ll truly regret it and you may lose your Capricorn man in the process.
What You Should Do
Most women want to reach out and try desperately to reach their Capricorn man when a huge fight has occurred. They text, call, and won’t stop trying to get his attention in fear he’ll leave.
With that said, don’t do this! When you know he’s angry, say you are truly sorry and then let him have some space. Give him some time to simmer down. If he really loves you, he will return.
If he really had interest in you before this mishap, he will remember that and he will weigh the pros and cons of whether or not he should give it another chance or if he should let go.
I can almost guarantee you that if he really cared deeply for you before this happened, he will come back to you. He may tell you he’s going to have to work it out in his head but he won’t let go of you that easily.
So when you get the urge to text him several times in a day trying desperately to get him to respond, stop yourself. Step back, put the phone down, and take a deep breath. If you bombard him, he’s going to shut down and you won’t hear from him at all.
Do whatever you have to do in order to vent your own frustration but without talking to him about it. You can call up some of your friends, family, or someone that will listen and give you support.
You can also punch a punching bag, pillow, or scream at the top of your lungs with no one around. Go for a hike, jog, do some yoga or even meditation. Do what it takes to help you nurture yourself and refrain from reaching out to him.
I know it’s not easy to not reach out but telling him you’re sorry then stepping back will help him to think things over and figure out how he really feels for you. If the love was there, it still will be.
Be There For Him
When he’s ready to talk to you again, he’ll come back. He will want to discuss why things went the way they did and what will happen next. Be very open and honest with him.
It’s best to get everything out on the table and do it diplomatically. Don’t attack him for the role he played or how he went about responding to you. If he started the fight, don’t point the finger there either.
Basically you have to rather approach what the subject was, how you felt about it and what you’d like to go going forward to avoid that situation from happening again. Talk to him about solutions and healing. He’ll be more receptive than you think.