5 Ways To Make A Capricorn Man Obsessed With You

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
Has a Capricorn guy caught your eye? Want to be on his mind just as much? If getting him totally obsessed with you sounds like something you’re interested in, then read on to find out just how to make a capricorn man obsessed with you.

Has a sensible and sexy Capricorn guy caught your eye? Is he living in your mind like he pays rent? Want to be on his mind just as much? 

It’s no mean feat to snag a Capricorn guy, due to their pragmatic and discerning nature. They want the best of the best and their standards are sky high! 

So, what’s a girl to do? Well, you’re in the right spot! As a Relationship Astrologer, I use Astrology to assist women in embedding themselves into the mind of the Capricorn man… to the point that he is completely obsessed with you! 

If getting him totally obsessed with you sounds like something you’re interested in, then read on to find out just how to be on his mind 24/7, at work and at home! 

How To Make A Capricorn Man Obsessed With You — 5 Effective Ways

1. Stand On Your Own Two Feet

A Capricorn is represented by the mountain goat and they actually have some shocking similarities! Consider that goats and Capricorns are strong and immoveable. A goat can walk up a sheer cliffside and still be stable, grounded in his own tenacity and strong sense of self, just like the Capricorn. 

As a result, the Capricorn desires someone similar who can stay solid and secure in the face of adversity. The Capricorn is not like a nurturing Cancer or Pisces… he isn’t here to babysit his partner and cater to her emotional needs! He needs to know that his partner can hang on by herself while the Capricorn man makes his mark on the world.

The Capricorn man will become obsessed with the woman who is not obsessed with him! He’ll be thrilled by a lady who knows how to keep herself steady and stable with or without him. What can I say, Capricorns love them some self-sufficiency! 

2. Stay Classy

Ways To Make Capricorn Obsessed

Capricorns take comfort in all things reserved and elegant. They like quality, and not just the illusion of quality. This is why they are into women who take their image seriously and who have substance, not just flashy sensibilities. 

The Capricorn man is also about status symbols. So, he’s not going to favor a woman who wears dollar store clothes and cheap makeup. He’s going to appreciate conservative dressers who aren’t out to make a splash. In his mind, quality speaks for itself without adding in any extra showiness!

To make a Capricorn man obsessed with you, stick with neutral makeup, semi-traditional dress, and reserved speech. Without any pretense the Capricorn will be most impressed by you!

3. Don’t Pressure Him

The Capricorn man is ruled by the ringed Saturn. Just like Saturn is a slow-moving planet, taking about thirty years to complete a trip around the Sun, Capricorns are slow moving dudes. They firmly believe that it is indeed slow and steady that wins the race in life and relationships. 

For this reason, he isn’t going to even consider someone who wants to impose their will on him. He is a very willful guy as it is. He is cool with taking his sweet time in love. Capricorns more than any other sign recognize that a quality relationship will stand the test of time. 

He’s going to greatly appreciate any effort on your part to slow down, reel back, and go at his pace. He’s not going to be super flirty or romantic at first, but taking the time to let him come out of his own shell rather than dragging him out is going to keep you on his mind. And when a Capricorn lets you in, he’s obsessed for life!

4. Don’t Talk About It, Be About It

How To Make A Capricorn Man Obsessed With You

Capricorns are nothing if not completely real. They aren’t attempting to be anything other than what they are, and they won’t try to make anyone think otherwise. They appreciate real, tangible accomplishment and not pretense. This is why so many Capricorns find themselves as bosses and CEOs. 

Capricorns have a honed bullshit detector. They know exactly when someone is bluffing or being dramatic. Real achievement speaks for itself and the Capricorn wants someone who brags very little and accomplishes a lot.

They will deeply appreciate the kind of woman who decided to stay low key. He’s obsessed with the kinds of women who make quiet moves. The woman who knows that her true power lies in actions and not in talking about actions will land the heart and mind of the Capricorn man. 

Talk only about what you have actually done and only if it is truly relevant. Talking about all the things you’ll do “one day” or what you tried to do is as good as nothing at all to the Capricorn. He’ll fall in love and become totally obsessed with the woman who holds her power close to the chest. 

Read next: How To Show A Capricorn Man That You Really Love Him

5. Show Him How You’ll Help Him Advance

This one’s not overly romantic or cute, but it’s the truth. The Capricorn man wants to know what you’ll bring to his life and how you’ll make him better personally or professionally. 

This has a lot to do with Capricorn’s association with the 10th house of the Zodiac. The 10th house is status and how one is known in society as well as one’s overall reputation. It makes a lot of sense that Capricorn is always looking to see how a potential love interest is going to elevate him and make him better!

If you’re the type of woman who would be able to give the Capricorn advice, offer him services, or advance his career then he will easily become interested in who you are as a person. It’s just that he looks at utility first and how someone can practically help him and then moves on to appreciating them for who they are. 

Sometimes attempting to snag a Capricorn can feel like a job interview. You’re attempting to convince him on what it is that you bring to the table. Once he realizes exactly what it is that you can help him achieve then you have a firm place in his heart! 

Getting to the heart of the Capricorn man takes effort, patience, and skill. You have to be a special breed of woman who is elite. Thankfully, you now know everything you need to get on the mind of the Capricorn man so he is totally obsessed with you! You can thank me later!

If you’re dating a Capricorn man, you have to let me and the rest of our Astrology community know just how you got him to be totally intrigued and fixated with you! Tell us in the comments below how you managed this!

And if you’re looking to grow your love with Capricorn guy to greater heights, and want to make him wildly attracted to you, then check out my guide Forever Love With A Capricorn Man to find out how to sustain your love with him for all time!

Wishing you all the luck in the universe, 

Anna Kovach

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7 thoughts on “5 Ways To Make A Capricorn Man Obsessed With You

  1. It’s been a week since I last sent a text to cap guy. I haven’t heard from him for 19 days.
    I feel like lm wasting my time and lm almost ready to give up and move on and find someone else.
    For now lm concentrating on work, family and everyday life. I truly believe that l won’t hear from him again as he’s not interested.

    1. Hi Karen!

      If you haven’t heard from him for 19 days then by all means, do your own thing. He’s not paying you any mind which means he isn’t worth your time. Do you own thing and start dating others. If he does care then he’ll come back and do the work to win you back. Otherwise there is no reason to wait around on someone like this. I’m glad to hear you are concentrating on the important things in your life honey. Stand strong!

  2. I am currently in relationship with a Capricorn man. We met online Bumble, he liked my profile, I responded to him, we exchanged numbers on a Friday that Sunday we agreed to meet at a park that was in the middle for both of us. We chatted for an hour or so, he then asked me to have breakfast, from breakfast he asked me to go bowling(based on conversation we were having) after bowling we played arcade games, after the arcade we caught a movie! That meet up turned into 7 hours.

    Our second date he picked a nice Mexican restaurant and we caught a comedy show. After dinner before the show we stopped for ice cream. He then said to me that he would like to date me exclusively and asked if I would take down my profile(which I did).

    The one thing he said to me the most was that he loved my energy, my personality and how positive I was.

    It all started May 21st we him liking my profile our second date he asked to date me exclusively; we have been together every weekend since our initial meet up May 23rd!

    He is amazing, kind, caring, considerate, attentive, emotionally intelligent…I could go on….

    I’m a truly bubbly person, free spirited, loves adventure and he loves that.

    I am a SCORPIO!

    1. Hi Monica!

      I am so happy you wrote in to share your experience with a Capricorn man. It sounds like things are going well. Just keep it relaxed and don’t push for anything and you may find that this is a very natural connection for Capricorn man and Scorpio woman. He gets the tenderness and passion from you and he is able to share how to make life better with you. You two have great chances. If you want to know more about Capricorn man though, you should check out my books on Capricorn Man Secrets!

  3. I really fell for this Capricorn man. I am a Libra. He told me up front that he did not want to get too serious. I told him I did not either. He called me mostly at night and we talked free and openly mostly about sex. He told me he was sexual and we went there after a few dates. ( bad idea) but I enjoyed it. but our relationship had to be on his terms. I had to go to him or meet somewhere. The last time we were together . I wore a dress he told me not to wear. it was the only thing cotton I had and I had tried on some sweaters that had wool in them. I am allergic. so instead of cancelling I went. I explained the situation and he actually got mad at me. He made derogitory remarks about women and I was hurt . He told me how he felt and I ignored it. This was the only Capricorn I ever dated and it was worse than the Cancer I was married too. Is all Capricorns attitude is my way or the high way. I think he is still bitter over his divorce and he wears his pain like a stone around his heart. I really like him but I can not sacrifice my peace of mind and have to walk on egg shells around no one. I recently rekindled a friendship with a Virgo. I hope that we can be a compatible match,. I need someone who is caring not billerigent.

    1. Hi Vanessa Adams!

      He sounds demanding and controlling as well as demeaning. I am so sorry that he’s acting this way sweetheart. Sometimes Capricorn men or other earth signs (Taurus & Virgo) can be narcissistic. Not all of them but many of them can develop those traits. Since he told you that he wasn’t ready to get serious then you have to assume that’s the case and you two may not be on the same page. I know you want to be a compatible match but if he treats you crappy then maybe you shouldn’t dive any deeper with him. You need someone to treat you well and be loving with you. You also need someone who wants to be with you for the long haul.

  4. I have been seeing a Cap man for the last year. We have been friends with benefits. This morning I sent a flirty text and he informed me that he was dating other women. I understand that since we live a couple of hours away from each other, but why bring it up now?

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