Why would Capricorn man dodge your calls? Did you have an argument, or did he just stop talking to you? What is going on? Keep reading on some useful information regarding why the Capricorn man is not responding to your calls as well as what you can do about it.
Why He Might Have Gone Quiet
There are a few things that would make a Capricorn man go silent, and it’s important for you to know what they are so that you can figure out if you perhaps did something that made him do this or if it was just him.
You Annoyed Him
Capricorn man has a set of standards that don’t necessarily apply to other people, but he certainly has expectations that are rather high. If you in some way did something that went against his morals, he may be a bit annoyed.
What sorts of things would annoy him to the point of not talking? There are some particular things that you should pay attention to such as:
- You Pressured or Pushed Him For A Relationship or His Time
- You Said Something Mean About Someone
- You Gossip Too Much
- You Create A Lot of Drama
- You’re A Loud Person With No Manners
Lack of Patience On Your Part
Another thing that would make a Capricorn go off-kilter and into hiding is you not having patience with him. He’s someone who takes a great deal of time to form a bond that may develop into a relationship later on.
He doesn’t like to rush in, and he doesn’t like to feel like he’s being held down. He doesn’t want to answer to anyone. He wants to be his own man and do what he wants without explanation.
If you’re in the early stages of being with a Capricorn man, trying to tell him what to do or pressuring him to get on with things will make him upset and very likely to give you the silent treatment.
With the Capricorn man, you’ve got to go easy and take things as slowly as you can. He wants to feel comfortable and sure of his choices, especially when it comes to love. He will resent you if you try to fast forward.
Not Giving Him Space
Capricorn man is one that likes to have some solitude from time to time so he can sort through his thoughts, breathe, and figure out what he wants to do. It doesn’t mean he doesn’t want to be around you.
It simply means that he wants a bit of time to be himself and recharge his internal battery a bit. Don’t take offense if he wants to have a bit of alone time. If you aren’t respecting this aspect of him, he will definitely cut you off.
In fact, if you keep sending him lots of texts all the time, trying to call him, or trying to push him to spend time with you, he will at some point get really tired of it and just go dead silent.
This would be one of the major reasons your Capricorn man may stop responding to your calls. If you do it all the time then, he’s probably gotten tired of it and wants a bit of quiet.
Whether or not he cares enough to come back will depend on how much he cared before he decided to take his solitude without talking to you about it. If he loved you before or cared deeply, then maybe there is still a chance.
If he was just getting to know you or trying to form a new relationship and has pushed you back already then, it means you’re coming on too strong, and unless you can back off a bit, he may not want to come back.
What You Can Do If He Goes Quiet on You
I just mentioned that if he goes quiet, you can try to pull back a bit. Give him some space, give him time, and don’t try to keep in constant contact. Even if it doesn’t seem like it, he’s paying attention.
Going from trying to call him all the time to only calling once or twice a week will get his attention. He will wonder why the change and it’s likely he’ll then want to chase you because he feels better that you’ve released your death grip on him.
I know your intention isn’t to make him feel closed in or that you’ve tried to take control but, in his mind, you’re trying to cut his life off and make yourself his entire life and that will not work well.
You need to show him you have a life outside of him, that he’s not your #1 priority of every day, that you also enjoy solitude, and you respect his needs to have time to himself.
Showing him that you understand and that you care about him in this way will make him want to be closer to you. That’s really what he wants is to be understood and allowed to breathe.
It’s very important you make your Capricorn man feel loved but also comfortable. Love with pressure and no breathing room isn’t something he wants. He wants to know he can take off for a weekend into the mountains alone and you’ll be ok with it.
He needs to know that if he doesn’t call you every single day that you’re still alright with him and aren’t worried about what he’s doing. The closer you get, the less space he will require, but until you get there, you’ve got to relax.
Relaxing and letting him figure things out for himself will help him feel better about his relationship with you and will want more to get closer. Open the door by giving him space.
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I don’t know what to do I met a Capricorn man 4 years ago he pursued me for a long time. I gave in and started dating him we took pictures together I asked if I could share them on her Facebook and he said yes so I told him then all of a sudden some girl starts calling him then he just stopped talking to me and I saw him out with her that crushed my heart I text him and told him to. Ever ever contact me again because he just did nothing but lying humiliate me. So you’re goes by my ex boyfriend and I broke up and my Capricorn man Facebook messages being telling me he’s sorry kid falling in love with me too fast and scared they got scared and he wanted to apologize and that he regret it he treated me like that and if you could make it up to me he would but he knew I couldn’t because I had a boyfriend . I messaged him back and I told him I didn’t have a boyfriend my boyfriend and I have been split up for a month so we exchange phone numbers again and my ex boyfriend kept calling and wanting to come back home and I did go back to him but like Capricorn man kept calling me even though he knew I was back with my ex so I had to ignore him and block him . Play X was put in prison for 3 years and my Capricorn boyfriend started calling me again I agree to give my all to him and we started seeing each other he called me all day everyday so a year later we’re still together I finally met his family his mom nice has a sister everyone who means a lot to him but for the past 2 weeks he hardly calls it’s only maybe twice a day and his conversations are short last couple of days he says he’s not feeling good and I just don’t understand she tells me he’s going to take a nap and call me when he wakes up and already twice he hasn’t I don’t know if it’s my codependency insecurities and me being so needy I feel I’m losing him Am I Wrong? Should I just give him his space should I not answer his call when you called me in the morning because he didn’t answer my two calls that I made to him earlier today? Or is that just playing games?
Hi Ms. Anxiety!
It really sounds like you need to talk to him directly honey. Tell him how you’re feeling about all of this and what you want going forward. It has to be clear so later on he cannot claim he didn’t know where you stood. Make it clear where exactly you do stand. He needs to act right or move along but he also needs to let you know his plan so you can figure out what you will do next. I would be very annoyed myself if a man kept dodging my calls. Tell him if he wants to stay in this relationship then he needs to get ahold of you. If you would like to know more about Capricorn men, please check out my books on Capricorn Man Secrets.