How To Communicate With A Capricorn Man Properly

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
I’m excited to tell you my best ways to communicate with a Capricorn man. If you’re ready to learn and apply these tips, then you’re well on your way to having those heart to hearts with your Capricorn fella.
Do you have a crush on a Capricorn man but aren’t sure how to talk to him? You will learn how to communicate with a Capricorn man in a way that blows his mind and brings great value to your future.

Capricorn’s communication style is very specific. They are some of the most puzzling people to attempt a conversation with for several reasons. You could be feeling like you’re at your wit’s end trying to talk to this guy! 

No worries, though, because I’ve found a few pointers over the years that will assist you in bridging the communication gap between your Capricorn guy and you. It takes some change in perspective to understand him!

I’m excited to tell you my five best techniques to communicate better with the Capricorn guy. If you’re ready to learn and apply these tips, then you’re well on your way to having those heart to hearts with your Capricorn fella.

So, here’s how to communicate with a Capricorn man properly:

  • be direct
  • prepare for slow-n-steady
  • be realistic

Capricorn Man Communication Style — How Do Capricorns Communicate?

A Capricorn man has a unique communication style. He doesn’t get emotional, and this is why he makes an excellent leader. In times of difficulty, he will help keep us composed and functioning.

The Capricorn man communicates respectfully and concisely. He’s an excellent source for keeping your feet on the ground when you’re too emotional or daydreaming too much.

His excellent logic will help you make the right choices at the right time. Where you may be sad or have anxiety when you receive an unexpected bill, he’ll look at it and make plans on how to pay it. Capricorns are direct, honest, and straightforward in their communication.

He seems nearly incapable of becoming upset. But he can be if you push him too far. He gets more angered by people doing stupid things than anything else. Doing illogical things makes him question the person and their abilities.

If you need someone to help keep you calm during times of great stress, turn to a Capricorn. He’ll keep your feet centered and rooted into the ground so that you don’t get carried away.

How To Communicate With A Capricorn Man — 3 Effective Ways

Be Direct

Capricorn is a sign that is all about business. He’s all about hard work with no games. Talking to a Capricorn guy can feel like attending a work meeting. What’s on the agenda before we can all disperse?

Capricorn likes to talk about what’s necessary and not much else. Capricorns are famous for their silence.

If you’d like to get across to Capricorn then it’s better to not mince words. Say what you mean in the simplest way that you know how to. This is an effective way how talk to a Capricorn man.

This doesn’t mean that Capricorns can’t enjoy a more casual chat. It mostly means that if there is something that you want to say, beating around the bush isn’t going to register for the Capricorn.

He isn’t reading into what you say. He’s not overthinking it. He takes your words at face value. As a result, being vague when attempting to communicate a point is going to have him more confused than enlightened.

Say what you mean and mean what you say when a Capricorn man is involved!

Prepare For Slow-N-Steady

Capricorns are formal people, even in casual relationships. For the first while of a partnership or friendship with a Capricorn, you might be the only one thinking of it as a friendship or partnership.

Capricorns will not jump into deep conversations right off the bat. There is nothing that makes a Capricorn prickle like oversharing too soon.

It’s good to buckle in and enjoy the ride when communicating with a Capricorn man. He’s not going to open his shell up readily, so it’s better to set up camp and wait for him to relax with you.

He must build a base of trust before he becomes real with you. He must witness that you’re not going anywhere. 

Being ruled by Saturn, Capricorn needs to see that you’re ‘solid’ and not going to change on them. They like someone who first displays their staying power.

Once Capricorn realizes that his walls have not put you off, that is the moment that he begins to lower them. 

Be Realistic

Capricorn is not subject to any worldly illusions. He sees things the same way that they really are. This is why he can sometimes speak with such certainty about ‘the way things are.’ He feels that he is completely unjaded regarding the nature of the world.

He doesn’t need a happy ending or a positive spin on the story. If he is ever venting to you about anything, understand that you don’t need to find the bright side for him. 

Capricorns will vent to you, but it isn’t because they’re under the illusion that you’ll solve their problems. Instead, they vent to get closer to you and let you in on what’s on their mind. 

In addition, being overly hopeful, precious, or naïve in conversation is going to instantly have your Capricorn guy running for the hills. Phrases like “Everything happens for a reason,” “I know you’ll pull through this,” and “Just look on the bright side” are pure Cap repellent! 

Instead, try just quietly listening to him when he’s upset or annoyed. And try saying: “Thank you for telling me that. I’m here to support you through this.” A phrase like that is honest and doesn’t make the Capricorn feel like you’re attempting to make the situation better than it is. 

Capricorn men have a very specific love language. Actually, I have covered his entire Astrology love profile in my Capricorn Love Language guide. I suggest you get your copy if you really want to master his love language and finally connect with him in the right way.

Why Is My Capricorn Man Not Communicating? What Upsets Him?

The Capricorn man speaks plainly and shortly. I imagine that Batman is a Capricorn because he says nothing unless it’s absolutely necessary.

Capricorn men can be bossy. He is the ‘boss’ archetype within the zodiac, after all. He is short-spoken, so he may even forget a please or thank you when telling others to do things! It is an acquired taste for many, that is for sure.

Capricorn man lack of communication is not a big deal. If you see him being silent, don’t assume he is upset. He just doesn’t know what to say and silently observes. He can sometimes appear to be somewhat aloof and doesn’t pay attention to other people’s feelings. He is logical, and so their feelings are irrelevant to most situations.

How To Start A Conversation With A Capricorn Man?

Try to make him laugh to create a comfortable environment. Save your witty one-liners for a Gemini, because Capricorn men have a dry sense of humor. They would not enjoy things like stand-up comedy and instead find more morbid things to be funny. 

Capricorn doesn’t laugh easily in most cases. It takes a certain kind of cynical humor to really get a Capricorn man to giggle. And even then, belly laughs aren’t really part of his repertoire. 

Rather, Capricorn would prefer more serious activities. He may actually think it’s annoying when people try too hard to make others laugh. It’s the sort of thing that makes him cringe just thinking about it. 

Capricorns have a high standard for what is funny. They may laugh at the sort of things that others would feel awkward about. Hey, whatever puts a smile on their face is cool! 

If you do go for humor, don’t try for witty wordplay or slapstick. Instead, try a touch of dry sarcasm once in a while or some observational humor. 

 If You Listen To Dating Coaches, You Can Lose Your Capricorn Man Forever…

Over the years, I’ve had a lot of my clients send me advice they got from dating coaches. They wanted to know if it would work with their Capricorn man.

And I literally wanted to scream with frustration.


Because most dating advice definitely will NOT work if you use it with a Capricorn.

You see, Capricorn men are VERY different from men of other signs. And if you use standard dating advice with a Capricorn, it can backfire. He might disappear forever and you’ll never hear from him again.

I don’t want that to happen to you. Especially when it is SO easy to draw him to you and get him to connect deeply with your heart.

You just need to know the specific phrases to tell him <<

So he’ll NEVER want to lose you. He’ll be wrapped around your fingerAnd it won’t take him long to put a ring on that finger either.

These phrases are the EXACT thing you need to turn everything around with him.

So… for heaven’s sake… DON’T listen to normal dating coaches! They give out the same advice for ALL men… which is absolutely insane. Because your wonderful Capricorn is NOT like other men… at ALL.

Click here to find out the specific things your Capricorn man needs to hear to melt his heart <<



About Author

Hi, this is Anna Kovach. I am a professional Relationship Astrologer and author of dozens of bestselling books and programs. For over a decade I’ve been advising commitment-seeking women like you and helping them understand, attract and keep the man of their dreams using the astonishing power of astrology. Join over 250K subscribers on my newsletter or follow me on social media! Learn more about me and how I can help you here.

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