What Does It Mean When A Capricorn Man Ignores You?

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
What does it mean when a Capricorn man ignores you? There are a several reasons why a Capricorn man is giving you the silent treatment. Keep reading to find out more.

I often get questions from my readers asking what to do when a Capricorn man goes silent and ignores you out of nowhere? The thing with these men is that they are extremely independent and free-spirited.

It is important that you don’t take his behavior personally, but it is also important to understand what you can do to avoid him treating you this way. It may take quite a bit of compromise for some of you to be with a Capricorn man.

You need to understand why he acts the way he does and what to do when he does this. He can be very independent, which isn’t always easy for women to handle, but if you know what to do, you’ll be golden.

Capricorn men are the pillars of strength and will often appear as though they have no feelings or have no sensitivity when, actually, they do. They hide it deep inside themselves and rarely let it out.

When he fully loves and trusts someone, this side of him will come out. He has his own ways of showing someone how he feels and what he wants for the future, but what happens when a Capricorn man goes silent?

Continue reading to find out more.

Capricorn Man Ignoring Me — 4 Possible Reasons Why Do Capricorn Go Quiet

Capricorn men are truly amazing. These guys are special and will always follow the beat of their own drum. No one can possibly tell a Capricorn man what to do, least of all a woman.

He has to have the independence to do whatever he wants. He’s a rock for those who need someone steady to hang onto or talk to in times of crisis. He’s a cool cucumber that will absolutely have nuggets of truth to offer you so that you can solve your issues.

If you get yourself involved with a Capricorn man, you need to know exactly what you are getting yourself into. When a Capricorn man goes quiet, here are 4 possible reasons why he is demonstrating such behavior:

1. He Doesn’t Want To Hurt You

When a Capricorn man fully loves and trusts someone, this side of him will come out. He has his own ways of showing someone how he feels and what he wants in the future. It may not be the same as how others would respond.

I get a lot of ‘He is avoiding me’, ‘He is not talking to me’, ‘He is confusing me’ from my clients. Ladies, if he feels that a woman isn’t the right fit for him anymore, and yet he still cares for, he will avoid her and fade into the background so that she will get the hint. He is probably the guy who started the fashion of ghosting.

>> here is how to tell if a Capricorn man is falling in love with you.

If a Capricorn man speaks up, he may very well burn the person with what he says, and if he cares about that person, he won’t want the hurt to be too treacherous. He will ignore her until he has the strength or until she breaks up with him. It is much easier to make her the bad guy.

2. You Have Been Dishonest With Him

A feeling of anger or hurt could be considered this. Those born under the sign of Capricorn are particularly adept at detecting other people’s energy. Lying or underhanded behavior will definitely be discovered by him.

It won’t be tolerated or put up with by him. You will definitely be shut out by him. In the event that you lied, you must do whatever it takes to apologize and prove you won’t do it again. In the event that you cheat on him, he won’t waste more time with you.

It would be better for him to move on and find someone else who would be loyal to him. The relationship will end, and he’ll move on to something new. You won’t be able to change this, so there is no point in trying. It won’t be accepted by him.

If you need some help with smooth things over with your Capricorn man after an argument, check out my latest blogpost here <<

3. He Doesn’t Want Commitment

If a Capricorn man doesn’t contact you at all, he’s either questioning things or the relationship. It could also be that he’s figuring out that you’re not the one for him. When a Capricorn man ignores your text, you know there is an issue.

The worst-case scenario for why he is ignoring you is that he simply doesn’t want to be with you anymore and doesn’t know how to tell you.

If you have been dating for some time, but he does not want to be more, but you pressure him, he will start cutting you off and making himself scarce.

Calls and texts won’t be returned or initiated by him. You won’t be able to get him to respond at all because he will just give you the silent treatment. In the end, he skips out and moves on with his life. This is when you might think of a Capricorn man avoiding me.

Also, a Capricorn man might be scared to commit for fear of getting hurt, so if you try to suggest or push it, he’ll clam up and become silent. This man doesn’t do very well with relationship pressures. This is why he is always a bit of a bachelor.

4. His Independence Is Being Threatened

I cannot overstate this fact enough, but a Capricorn man needs his  independence. This is a guy who cannot tolerate being caged in and this is often the way he feels in his relationships. 

When you get a bit needy and want too much of his attention it can definitely freak a Capricorn man out. This is the last thing he wants, to be responsible for your joy and happiness. 

This is a man who does what he wants when he wants it. He makes his own happiness his own responsibility, so he cannot understand why you cannot do the same. This is likely to have happened when a Capricorn goes silent.

When a Capricorn man notices that you are becoming a bit too dependent on him, he is likely to start ghosting you because he just cannot handle the pressure you are putting on him. 

When A Capricorn Man Goes Silent — Here’s What To Do

It will very much depend on his reasons for giving you the silent treatment. You should pretty much be able to figure it out but if you can’t, you’ll have to flat out ask him to be honest with you. He should tell you the truth at that point.

If it’s a small thing and he’s willing to work through it then the silence will come to an end and the two of you can talk again. However, if you hurt him, made him angry, betrayed him, or pushed him for commitment, he may not be as forgiving.

It will take him a while to get over it, but that doesn’t mean he will want to remain with you. It won’t matter to him anymore and he’ll move on to his next relationship.

Be patient with him while you figure out what it is that has him hot and bothered. The most important thing is to focus on yourself for a while. Maybe you’ve been putting too much emphasis on this relationship anyway.

Give him some time and space to cool down and figure things out and take this as an opportunity to work on yourself and your own flaws that might be coming up in the relationship.

Is ignoring a Capricorn man in return a good idea? And what will it do for your relationship? << check out here

What To Do When A Capricorn Man Ignores You — 3 Best Ways To Respond

1. Focus On Yourself And Your Hobbies

I know it is excruciatingly painful when someone you care about ignores you. All you want to do is reach out and fix the problem and figure out what exactly you did or said to have things go wrong. 

It is probably your gut reaction to want to contact him and talk about whatever happened between the two of you to cause the silence, but this can often put the nail in the coffin even deeper than before.

Your Capricorn man probably just needs space, and if you keep reaching out to him, he is going to start feeling really smothered and annoyed. The best course of action for you to take is to actually take a step back and purely focus on yourself.

I know it can be really difficult, and he is probably on your mind all of the time. But this is exactly why you need to focus on yourself. You always need to be the number one player in your life, your happiness is up to you, not some guy!

Think about all the things you love to do in your life and then focus on these things. Maybe it’s a sport, or creative activity or spending time with your friends. It doesn’t really matter what it is, as long as you are working on yourself you are probably distracted from thinking about him.

And this is key, the more you sit around moping at home hoping he will reach out, the worse you will feel because your mind is constantly on the situation and that can’t be fun at all. Really work on yourself, and put all the energy you would out into him, into you!

2. Start A New Fitness Routine

This ties in with the previous point, but you have no idea how effective this is to get your Capricorn man to go crazy. Capricorn guys are ALL about appearances, these guys really care about what others have to think about them.

And this most definitely influences the type of woman a Capricorn man finds attractive. For him, a woman who really takes care of herself by taking care of her diet and working out regularly is pretty important to him

He wants someone who takes a lot of pride in her appearance, and this is why it is such a good idea for you to really focus on your fitness when he ignores you. Number one, you will be distracted because of all the time you’re putting into the gym.

Number two, the feel-good endorphins will really get you going and help you not to get stuck in any yucky emotions that might come up because of him ignoring you, and finally number two he will definitely be blown away by your new and improved physical appearance.

It is good to remember that a Capricorn man really likes it when a woman takes care of herself and isn’t too needy and expectant of him in the relationship. So, looking after your fitness is really one way to combat him showing you the cold shoulder.

Not only will you look good, and feel good, but this will also help you to gain more confidence and help you to deal with the pain of him going quiet. This shows that your world doesn’t revolve around him and that you have hobbies outside of the relationship.

3. Don’t Be Desperate Or Needy

It is definitely not a good idea to do something desperate like begging him to come back. Your clingy behavior will drive him away since he won’t be able to understand it.

Don’t worry about whether the two of you will get along instead of focusing on the things you can change. It’s meant to be, if it does, if it doesn’t, it’s not. You need to be as chilled as possible.

There is really nothing more to it, and you cannot control how he feels about you. Remember, though, that your actions are under your control, so save your dignity and do not act in a desperate manner.

Related: Things A Capricorn Man Likes And Dislikes In A Women

Capricorn Man Ignoring Me For No Reason — What Should You Do?

It can be really confusing when a Capricorn man is ignoring you for no apparent reason. Instead of getting discouraged when he goes quiet, take this as an opportunity to work on yourself so that his actions don’t affect your emotions too much.

It is important to remember that we can’t control how other people treat us, but we do have the power to choose how we will respond in these situations.

Always take the mature approach, and don’t let a man’s actions bring you down. You are worth so much more than that. So, keep your head held high and do the things that make you feel immense joy and satisfaction.

Whatever you do, don’t ignore him back, don’t act desperate and clingy. It is always a good idea to reach out to him and ask if there is something going on that he would like to talk about.

Read next: How To Compliment A Capricorn Man — What Do They Like To Hear?

FAQ About Capricorn Man Ignoring You

Are you struggling to figure out what to do about your Capricorn man and how this will affect your relationship?

Well, luckily for you I have compiled a list of questions that might come up in your relationship. Hopefully, this can help you navigate the difficult times you might experience with your Capricorn man.

How Long Will A Capricorn Man Ignore You? 

Ultimately, it is up to him to decide how long he should ignore you, but if you show him that you care and if you are willing to be supportive, you may be able to help break through his silence.

Capricorn men aren’t the easiest of guys, to be completely honest. They are ruled by the planet Saturn, which means that they can be rather cool and detached. They also tend to be very self-protective and even defensive, and may have problems being vulnerable. 

How Do You Know A Capricorn Man Is Done With You? 

It can be SO painful to worry about how to make things work with a Capricorn man who won’t commit. In such cases he will not make time for you, he will not communicate with you, act protective or  share his passion with you. 

When a Capricorn man is done with you, it isn’t that he doesn’t love you and care about you, it is that he loves and cares for his independence more and if it feels like he is losing it. He will do whatever he can to preserve it, even if it means moving away from the relationship he has with you. 

Do Capricorn Men Run Away From Their Feelings?

There is no sign who is more self-involved than a Capricorn. When they feel something they just do it without giving it a second thought. When a Capricorn man feels something for a woman, he will go for it but with a certain caution.

He is unlikely to run away from his feelings because he lets his feelings and gut guide him in everything he does. The thing that he is not so good with, is commitment if his independence is being threatened.

Capricorn men struggle to express their emotions and have a hard time opening up, but that doesn’t mean they are not willing to admit they have feelings.

Learn here how to get a Capricorn man to open up and share his true feelings <<

What Does It Mean When A Capricorn Man Stops Texting You?

This is a red flag where things take a turn that you probably will not appreciate. Capricorn men do tend to ghost people if they decide that their partner isn’t the right one. This would mean he ignores your texts.

You could text him: “I am sorry to bother you, but I was just wondering what made you stop answering my texts?” Or, you could say: “It makes me sad that we stopped communicating because everything seemed to be going pretty well between us. Did I offend you in any way?”

If he doesn’t respond, then you’re going to have to consider that he may not be into the relationship anymore. But, if he does reply, you’ll quickly see which way he is swinging.

If texting isn’t really your game, you’ll be glad to know that I have written a whole guide on how to text a Capricorn man the right way. You should really check it out if you want to learn how to play him at his own game.

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XOXO, Anna

About Author

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28 thoughts on “What Does It Mean When A Capricorn Man Ignores You?

  1. My Capricorn man takes me for granted and expects me to wait on him but is mean with money and expects me to buy my own food but to cook and clean for him whilst he spends all his time on the internet and don’t speak to me hardly at all

    1. Hi Maryann!

      I’m sorry to hear that your Capricorn man is ignoring you and doing what he wants. I think you should put your foot down and tell him it’s unacceptable to ignore you and not spend time with you. If you don’t speak up then things will not change and you’ll end up breaking up. Tell him enough is enough and either things need to improve or things need to end. It’s up to you to make the change!

  2. Me and my Capricorn were good, everytime we got close he would back off. In the beginning we discussed we would just be friends but later we both caught feelings. Instead of him growing some balls and being an honest man, he’s acting like a female. So he cut me off cold for no reason.

    1. Hi Tymia!

      Well, it sounds like kept getting cold feed and would back down. He must have gotten pretty burned in the past by someone which makes him gun shy to have another committed relationship. Capricorn men don’t speak up and tell someone their innermost feelings. It’s not because they’re weak. It’s actually because they are trying to be strong by not getting emotional. It’s easier to be cold than it is to speak up. They don’t want to appear weak by talking about their “feelings”. He cut you off cold because he probably got the impression that you were pushing him to open up or felt you wanted more than he was ready to provide. Fear is a powerful deterrent.

  3. I leave my capricorn man. after 2years. Am a Tauran woman. I expected him tobe a hardworker as much as i do. run business with passionate. Turns out, he become lazy and counting to his workers. and too slow to make decisions regarding to business. He seems too tired to do everything, and i feel to be the only person who give him access to develop business and managing time/effort. He asked me to borrow money under my name for business and promise to installment each month. Also didn’t work out, meanwhile i must pay to the bank monthly. It suck. I know he loves me to death, cant live without me. but enough is enough. he cried when i leave, but am too strong to accept less. i date other man, and he try to stop me and want me back. I said NO. He’s not the King. A hardworker. A strong personality. He can’t even being alone for more than 20minutes. he always need tobe with friends or me. i think, he is a Hurt Capricorn. Too bad

    1. Hi Tauran B.

      Your Capricorn guy must have some lazy aspects in his birth chart thus making him not the typical Capricorn. They normally are hard working to a point of being workaholics. Asking you to borrow money and not taking care of his own business is definitely not a good sign. It sounds like he’s more in love with your support than you. He needs to get himself together before trying to be with anyone. You should check out my book “Capricorn Man Secrets” for more information.

    1. Hi Nanzia!

      If he is totally ignoring you then he’s probably done with the relationship. If he’s calling you names then he’s trying to show you that he doesn’t care for you anymore or doesn’t want to be with you. Drop him and find someone who wants you and wants to be with you. You should check out my book “Capricorn Man Secrets” for more information.

  4. Hi there

    My capricorn guy seemed to have rushed me. We met on tinder and on the first date he wanted to open up to me. I stopped him yet on the second date he did. His told me he really likes me. On the third date, we made love, its uncommon for cappy men to move so fast, why has he done so with me?

  5. Hi, thank you for creating this space and sharing this info. I like a Capricorn guy and I’m an Aries. I asked him out to lunch, paid for it—cause I wanted to, and we had good convo. We were both laughing, and he was sharing about himself, his latest project, and healing his relationship with his dad. But when it was time to say goodbye, I said, “we should hang out again in the future.” He said “ok” kind of ambiguously. Then I could feel it was awkward, so I said, “if you want, no pressure.” And he repeated the same response. Then we hugged and said bye.

    That was weeks ago. He randomly likes my IG posts, but doesn’t text me or call. I haven’t called or texted because I don’t want to make a fool of myself again.

    What should I do? Does he like me or not? Cap men are so confusing.

    1. Hi G!

      You are so very welcome sweetheart! I’m glad you decided to reach out. Well that is odd. I think you should message him and ask him “what happened, I thought we got along well. Did you not want to get together again?”. You have to be more blunt and up front with Capricorn. You definitely should reach out to him. If you don’t want to ask him anything yet then just say “hey you, how you been? You still want to hang out again?” and see if he answers you. You won’t make a fool out of yourself for a simple text like that. Either he will agree and want to or he won’t then you’ll know he’s not into it. It’s really that simple sweetheart. If you’d like to learn more though, check out my books on Capricorn Man Secrets.

  6. Hi my name is helen. Thankyou for sharing. I am in relationship with Capricorn man and I am a Scorpio. He want me to travel his ways .We argue a lot of times about this. Now he is telling me he loves me but tired of arguing with me. He is saying he is sad because of me and ignore me. What should I do?

    1. Hi Helen,

      If you two are tired of arguing then you need to find a new way to communicate that will work for the two of you. Tell him that and see if you two cannot find a solution that helps with how you talk to each other. It may help things to be clearer for you two and find a more successful relationship. You might want to check out my books because it may help give you the keys to unlocking important things to know about Capricorn. I wish you the best!

  7. I’m not really what’s going on. My Capricorn comes to my workplace and I admit I didn’t really pay him much attention at first. One day he told me I have pretty eyes and I still didn’t think much about it. I went to his workplace a few weeks later, not knowing he even worked there, and he literally ran up to me to thank me for being so nice to him when I come to his work. We talked a bit and I must say he got my attention after that. He came to my work a few days later and I told him my name bc I realized he didn’t know it. He held out his hand to me and I gave him mine. It was slow so we talked a bit about his work and he said if I never need him he’s there. When he left he said talk to you later hun. I haven’t seen him since. Thoughts?

    1. Hi Marie!

      If you haven’t seen him then go see him yourself. He may just be busy or have stuff going on. Reach out to him and let him know you want to get back to the flow of what you had going on. Tell him if he needs to talk about anything at all to reach out to you. He needs to know you’re there for him. Be bold! If you need more tips, check out my books on Capricorn Man Secrets!

  8. Hi , there is this guy capricorn who chased me for 3 years but I didnt like him so I didnt give him chance. He got all of my social app accs he collected to text me . When I gave him chance and date , I am cancer girl as you know we are very loving and show emotion alot , he ignore my text most of the time , one day he would very loving and another day , he gone quiet , ignore my texts , i am so angry cuz i am not patient . I blocked him for several times now but he text me in another acc , tried to comfort but same shit happen always.
    His conversations like hey ? How are you feeling ? Then done each day . Very boring. One thing i hate is he dont tell me about his everything like even what he is doing. He only know what I am doing . That selfish and i am disappointed. What he exactly want . I am running out of patience madam.

    1. Hi Kristina!

      I am so sorry sweetheart. If he’s not acting interested and not being more enthusiastic then he’s probably not that into you. If he was, he’d have more to say to you and would be trying to spend time with you whenever he can. This guy doesn’t seem as though he wants anything solid with you. I can totally understand running out of patience. He should give you more but since he’s not, you can try asking him to see where he stands with you. If he doesn’t pick up the pace, you can move forward and leave him behind. I wish you all the best!

  9. My capricorn crush always liking my pictures and watching my stories on Instagram he asked for my number so I gave it to him and the conversation was dry. We both was responding alil late and I’m a capricorn woman we talked for 2 days and I thought the conversation was going good but then he ghosted me on the second day , Then he comes back the next day and picks up where the conversation had left off… He texted me like nothing has happened, I ignored him and didn’t respond now he keeps watching my story on my Instagram account what does this mean?

    1. Hi Hope!

      Ah yes, the “disappearing” thing. Capricorn men like to prove to themselves that they are still free and that means being quiet or disappearing for a day, two, or three. This is a VERY normal thing. When he does this, you need to tell him it makes you uneasy when he goes silent. If he needs time to himself he should let you know that’s what is going on so that you aren’t wondering if things are alright. He’s watching you because he has feelings for you but it’s not alright for him to ghost you. Also this could be a test to see if you will stick with him despite what he does. They’re notorious for testing like this. You can pass it with flying colors when you don’t react to him badly. Stay cool as a cucumber like it’s no big deal but once a relationship is established, you need to let him know it’s not alright to ghost you. I hope this helps but you can always read my guides on “Capricorn Man Secrets” as well. Wishing you the best!

  10. So i met the most amazing man who I found out is definitely a Capricorn. We met in person at a bar and hit it off right away. he ended up asking me out on a date which i agreed. he wanted me to stay with him at that bar that night but i insisted i was going to stay with my friends and head to another. Keep in mind i recently moved to this new city at this time i had only been there about 3 weeks and was still meeting new people, settling in and having fun. I wasn’t expecting to meet any love interests so the fact it happened caught me off guard. I also have had a horrible dating history mostly because i have been naive on how to act and get guys to respect me so everything would always just be a situation ship or FWB they would end up ghosting me everytime once i was too attached.

    So this capricorn man and i went on a few dates he was a gentleman and honestly i never had that experience before having someone pick me up, have everything planned and pay etc. we started liking each other a lot he would open up about his plans to buy a house soon and about his family and stuff. I honestly struggled being vulnerable with him which i told him bc of my previous experiences.

    Long story short he was leaving for another trip (he travels a lot) and he wanted to see me before he left so he came over so we could walk to dinner. that particular day i was feeling very insecure, and toxic just in a really shitty mood overall so i pretty much took it out on him trying to push him away bc i was unhappy internally. i also had intentions on asking him what he really wanted from me in the long run since it had been almost 2 months we’ve been seeing each other and we were just intimate for the first time the week before. i know my bad attitude and seemingly childish behavior turned him off but before he got in the uber i stopped him and apologized and brought up what was bothering me. he took the time to answer me but made it clear this wasn’t the best time to discuss it. he picked me up..gave me several kisses and said we would need to discuss this again when he got back to which i agreed.
    he texted me when he got to the airport that night and i wished him a good trip.

    a week went by, i had purposefully not texted him just to give him some space, so i texted him another apology for how i acted and that i looked forward to talking with him again, that i really like him and want to continue spending time together and getting to know one another. he hasn’t responded at all and i sent that text 4 days ago.

    i know he said we would talk again and i trust him and am doing my best to give him space to think but I’m just worried its over. he has ALWAYS been 100% upfront and honest with me since we met. there was a time we had gone out and i had a little too much to drink i got to the point where he had to take care of me and we had a discussion about it and i agreed with him and i changed.
    I’m just scared that with that and now how i acted on my bad day i might’ve pushed him away for good. he’s such a good guy and he’s told me so many times he genuinely likes me and my friends say the same. Will he come back ?

    1. Hi Olive!

      Oops looks like your message duplicated. Check your other “Sad/worried Leo” comment to find my answer. I do hope everything gets sorted out for you. I want nothing but the best for you!

    2. Pls I need your advice, honestly I don’t understand my Capricorn man, am a vigor. He said he wanted friendship, he ask for my number I gave him & we were charting & communicating, we even make out plans to meet in person, after telling me sweet words & how he likes me, even prayed for me each time he calls, convinced me about how he likes me & d next thing he disappear. I tried to figure out d problems, d night he called me on video calls I picked & told him to call audio cos I was busy that night, he refused & sent me a message that he wanted to pray with me & wish me a good night rest, so I replied him that I was busy he should pls call audio, I can put it on speaker & continue with wat I was doing but he refused & sent me good night. D next morning I sent him good morning message he replied but did not respond well, & since then he refused to chart me up, I see him online but not charting me

  11. I met a capricorn at work. Things were nice, talking, he would observe me and the things I said and did constantly. This was september through january. Then february til now we dont speak much. I have tried to initiate conversations and he has kept his responses short and sweet. He still sits by me most days, talks comfortably to everyone but me, and still observes me and gets nervous based on body language, so nothing is clear or consistent. I have no clarity. It seems like he has lost interest, which is fine, but then there are times I think otherwise. What gives here?

  12. It’s funny my Capricorn guy was eyeing me before I even knew who he was! We went to the same school, have the same friends & I didn’t even know till I met him later (he’s older than me). We had a few convos & even went on a date, had a great time, we have ALOT in common! There was another time I was trying to see him but he was telling me that he’s an introvert and wanted the day to himself to unwind etc. I said no prob, he even called to explain it to me. Which I thought was sweet. It was kinda weird at first b/c I’m an extroverted Gemini that isn’t used to this! Lmao. But He opened up to me about his family, (even sent me a pic of him & his niece) but the biggest thing is he was dumped not too long ago and is still getting over the relationship. He even ran into me at an event & he told me “I want to be a gentleman & I like to take things slow, get to know. And I’m trying to heal & want to do it the right way so if you could be patient with me” his exact words. I said absolutely take the time you need, no prob. He even called me to clarify that he did he “didn’t want to hurt my feelings, don’t feel as if I’m rejecting you cuz I’m not, I’m just healing” I was super surprised b/c men never do that lol. And we had a really good & fun convo after that, he was way more open & funny. Ok cool right? So he won a huge position, I called him to congratulate him, he was telling me just some personal details that he’s going on a quick vaca etc regular convo. That was almost 2 wks ago and I haven’t heard from him since!! I don’t wanna pressure him in any way but I also feel like damn did he lose interest in me?? Like how are you to get to know someone if you don’t talk to them?? lol. The only thing is he literally watches all of my IG stories. But haven’t heard from him lol. I really like him and want to get to know him more, I think he’s a good man worth taking the time for. I still do my own thing and live my life but I find this so weird!!!! Does he not like me anymore? Does he not wanna talk to me?? lol

    1. Hi Ray!

      There is a distinct possibility that he’s afraid of what you two could have. If he truly IS working on healing then maybe he just needs time. I think you should just do your thing and take care of YOU right now. Let him look and let him think about you. If he heals up and wants to get together with you then trust me, he will. For right now you deserve all life can offer you so do what you want to do and enjoy it! I wish you all the best.

  13. Thank you for creating this space. I really like my Capricorn but find myself confused by his behavior often and I don’t want to give up but I also feel like he is playing games and taking me for granted at times. It’s been about 6 months but let’s say 3 where we have been in constant contact. The beginning he disappeared a few times I let him for weeks at a time but then I would text and see how he was and he would respond and we would be back on again. Fast forward to now, he told me he knows he wasn’t consistent before and wants to do better so that we can move forward, well he had been we’ve spent time, I let him lead so he primarily has been doing all of the calling but I always answer and initiate text, after a good week he seems to always then turn cold. For instance, we had a great conversation yesterday he told me he loves our chemistry spending time and seems so sweet most times but then I get nothing the next day. I reached out a few times via call/text and still nothing, I see he read my text but still has not responded, there was no argument or anything and I’m just wondering is this normal for them or is he stringing me along. We even have plans to attend a concert together to bring in the new year but I find myself nervous that he will just wake up and decide to go cold not sure what to do here if there is anything for me to do?

  14. I found this a very interesting read! We are both Capricorn & it’s a strange one! Mine is very hard working talks a lot about his job/jobs ,he like praise and validation but then who doesn’t lol ! I think we work as we leave seperate my choice after a vibe toxic marriage ending! I’ve learnt I can be on my own ! I love to read Anna’s story’s/script & advice you nail it Anna! I used to chase him like desperate but he now chases me ! I’m a hard working homemaker & I can be alone! We enjoy each others company we laugh we enjoy food ! He calls me all the time txts me 1st thing & last thing at night ! It’s just easy to be with him I know how he ticks now or should do after meeting in 2019! Although I’m 15 years old than him ! I look after myself & have my hobbies who knows what the future holds! I never thought my husband of 17 years would do the things he did to me! My boyfriend/lover whatever he is or we are just works 🌹I’ll keep ready Anna never to old to learn about our Capricorn man xxx

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