If you’re here, it’s probably because you’ve got a Capricorn guy that you’re crushing on and you’re looking for some assistance. Girl, I don’t blame you! The Universe brought you here today because he’s a tough nut to crack, and you’re meant to unlock the parts of himself that he isn’t going to show anyone else willingly!
The Capricorn guy is not the type to be easily seduced, however. He’s got walls higher than a skyscraper and he’s hard to get to know. This makes it all the sweeter when you finally do melt his heart though!
I’ve got four proven ways to win a Capricorn’s heart and open him up to trusting you. And if you do it right, he’s going to gradually relax and let you in. Follow my four proven ways to entice the Capricorn in a language that he can understand.
Read on to get a sense of what needs done to endear the Capricorn to you and keep him close to your heart for the rest of his days!
4 Proven Ways To Win A Capricorn Man’s Heart
1. Don’t Rush Him
The Capricorn is ruled by the almighty Saturn, the big boss man in the sky. Saturn is the planet that represents limitations and blocks. This isn’t to say Saturn is a bad planet, it’s just the realist!
Capricorn demonstrates this through his desire to move slowly. He basically put the brakes on everything that gives him pause. Relationships aren’t his forte so believe me, he wants to take things as slow as he can to feel out the situation and ensure that his next move is the right one.
It takes a long time to melt the heart of a Capricorn. At first, he’ll likely see how incorporating you into his life more would be useful for him and so that’s his initial reason to let you stick around. Eventually, once he’s given enough patience, he may just turn into the teddy bear you’ve hoped he would be with you.
It’s a struggle to go at his pace – I totally understand. Despite that, it’s important to honor his desire to take things slow. Think of this as a meditation on patience! Capricorn men have no lack of it, so a little patience may just rub off on you!
2. Be Honest About Who You Are
This tip is a major key for attracting and keeping a Capricorn man! Capricorns are all substance and no fluff. They’re honest about who they are and they don’t appreciate misrepresentation of the facts. Capricorns are pretty cozy with the cold hard truth!
A Capricorn is not the person that you want to play up small details with or blow your achievements out of proportion. He wants to know you, not a misrepresentation of you! He will respect you a lot more if you portray yourself truthfully instead of pretending that you’re high and mighty when you’re not.
For Capricorns, actions speak louder than words. Words can trick and deceive in the eyes of a Capricorn, whereas the actual truth of what is going on is reliable and steady.
Capricorns are like mountains. They are most comfortable when they base themselves on solid ground. When they go to lean on their partner but what they thought was solid was just smoke and mirrors, they tumble.
Causing a Capricorn to fail because you couldn’t hold up your end of the deal (because you misrepresented who you were) will only lead him to shut you out. Instead, tell him things about you that are real and honest so he knows who he’s really relying on!
3. Flex Your Adulting
If responsibility was a love language, it would be the Capricorn’s love language for sure! He is the disciplinarian dad of the Zodiac, always looking for ways to build character and prepare others for the “harsh world.”
This is why it’s important to show the Capricorn all of the ways that you’re an adult. If you have a big girl job, car payments, responsibilities, and you buy your own groceries, then the Capricorn man will be totally into you.
The Capricorn man is always looking for ways to further stabilize himself. He’s an Earth sign, which means that on some level he seeks the stability of the ground beneath his feet. His partner should be on board with him in this venture to create a predictably safe life.
When he knows that his partner could get along with or without him it actually gives him a lot of comfort. He’s acutely aware of the fragility of life and so he knows he won’t be around forever. As a result, he genuinely wants to ensure that the world he leaves behind is prepared for the event that he’s not around anymore.
A little morbid? Yep. That’s Capricorn for you! Long story short (in true Capricorn style), he needs his partner to be able to hold her own, make her own money, pay her own bills, and be responsible. This is going to make him feel safe to fall totally in love with you.
4. Stay Grounded
Capricorn’s like working with the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth. Anything that makes the facts seem more or less than they really are is going to annoy the heck out of a Capricorn. He won’t want to be within a fifty-foot radius of a chronic exaggerator or a shady down-player.
The best thing to do with the Capricorn is to portray facts as they are. They love a woman who can just state the facts without sprinkling in emotion or drama. Capricorn men will do a double take if they meet the woman who is grounded in what is actually going on without human error coming into the mix.
He’ll be impressed with your capability to say it like it is, without making things out to be worse than they are. Remember, Capricorn isn’t an optimist or a pessimist. He’s a realist! He isn’t here to comfort himself or anyone else and he isn’t here to wallow in a puddle. He’s here to get the job done!
If you can speak to this part of him that needs to be totally utilitarian, then you have a much better chance of making him totally addicted to your presence. He’ll feel he can’t find a girl like you just anywhere and he’ll want to keep you around forever.
Are you dating a Capricorn man? What has it taken to allow him to relax into the love that the two of you share? Secrets don’t make friends, so let me know yours in the comments down below!
If you’re looking to grow your love with Capricorn guy to greater heights, then check out my guide Forever Love With A Capricorn Man to find out how to sustain your love with him for all time!
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Wishing you all the luck in the Universe,