Hello, lovely! Knowing how to win a Capricorn man’s heart might not be one of the easiest things to figure out in the world. If you know a Capricorn man, then you know he is a complicated and complex character.
He might be an earth Zodiac sign who values stability and reliability in his life, but he also has a darker side that craves intensity and passion. But not too much or else he feels too much pressure and responsibility.
Wow! It is quite a lot to unravel and understand, but with a little patience and some strategic moves, you can win over the heart of a Capricorn man. And this is where I come in…
All my years of experience in Relationship Astrology have given me the insight on exactly what you need to know how to win a Capricorn man’s heart. Does that sound good?
Well, keep on reading to find out all my tips and tricks to make him yours forever. Here are the 7 ways to win a Capricorn man’s heart:
7 Ways To Win A Capricorn Man’s Heart And Make Him Yours
There are certain things that you can do to melt the heart of a Capricorn man. Here are 7 of my magical tips to make him yours:
1. The Energy He Needs From You…
The Capricorn is ruled by the almighty Saturn, the big boss man in the sky. Saturn is the planet that represents limitations and blocks. This isn’t to say Saturn is a bad planet, it’s just the realist!
Capricorn demonstrates this through his desire to move slowly. He basically put the brakes on everything that gives him pause. Relationships aren’t his forte so believe me, he wants to take things as slow as he can to feel out the situation and ensure that his next move is the right one.
It takes a long time to melt the heart of a Capricorn. At first, he’ll likely see how incorporating you into his life more would be useful for him and so that’s his initial reason to let you stick around. Eventually, once he’s given enough patience, he may just turn into the teddy bear you’ve hoped he would be with you.
It’s a struggle to go at his pace – I totally understand. Despite that, it’s important to honor his desire to take things slow. Think of this as a meditation on patience! Capricorn men have no lack of it, so a little patience may just rub off on you!
2. This Will Make Him Fall For You Quickly
This tip is a major key for attracting and keeping a Capricorn man! Capricorns are all substance and no fluff. They’re honest about who they are and they don’t appreciate misrepresentation of the facts. Capricorns are pretty cozy with the cold hard truth!
A Capricorn is not the person that you want to play up small details with or blow your achievements out of proportion. He wants to know you, not a misrepresentation of you! He will respect you a lot more if you portray yourself truthfully instead of pretending that you’re high and mighty when you’re not.
For Capricorns, actions speak louder than words. Words can trick and deceive in the eyes of a Capricorn, whereas the actual truth of what is going on is reliable and steady.
Capricorns are like mountains. They are most comfortable when they base themselves on solid ground. When they go to lean on their partner but what they thought was solid was just smoke and mirrors, they tumble.
Causing a Capricorn to fail because you couldn’t hold up your end of the deal (because you misrepresented who you were) will only lead him to shut you out. Instead, tell him things about you that are real and honest so he knows who he’s really relying on!
3. The Most Practical Way To His Heart…
If responsibility was a love language, it would be the Capricorn’s love language for sure! He is the disciplinarian dad of the Zodiac, always looking for ways to build character and prepare others for the “harsh world.”
This is why it’s important to show the Capricorn all of the ways that you’re an adult. If you have a big girl job, car payments, responsibilities, and you buy your own groceries, then the Capricorn man will be totally into you.
The Capricorn man is always looking for ways to further stabilize himself. He’s an Earth sign, which means that on some level he seeks the stability of the ground beneath his feet. His partner should be on board with him in this venture to create a predictably safe life.
When he knows that his partner could get along with or without him it actually gives him a lot of comfort. He’s acutely aware of the fragility of life and so he knows he won’t be around forever. As a result, he genuinely wants to ensure that the world he leaves behind is prepared for the event that he’s not around anymore.
A little morbid? Yep. That’s Capricorn for you! Long story short (in true Capricorn style), he needs his partner to be able to hold her own, make her own money, pay her own bills, and be responsible. This is going to make him feel safe to fall totally in love with you.
4. You Can Do This To Keep Him Coming Around…
Capricorn’s like working with the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth. Anything that makes the facts seem more or less than they really are is going to annoy the heck out of a Capricorn. He won’t want to be within a fifty-foot radius of a chronic exaggerator or a shady down-player.
The best thing to do with the Capricorn is to portray facts as they are. They love a woman who can just state the facts without sprinkling in emotion or drama. Capricorn men will do a double take if they meet the woman who is grounded in what is actually going on without human error coming into the mix.
He’ll be impressed with your capability to say it like it is, without making things out to be worse than they are. Remember, Capricorn isn’t an optimist or a pessimist. He’s a realist! He isn’t here to comfort himself or anyone else and he isn’t here to wallow in a puddle. He’s here to get the job done!
If you can speak to this part of him that needs to be totally utilitarian, then you have a much better chance of making him totally addicted to your presence. He’ll feel he can’t find a girl like you just anywhere and he’ll want to keep you around forever.
5. What He Needs To Feel Close…
Capricorn man falls more for a woman’s brain and inner sense of worth than he does for her actual physical appearance. Her inner self will outshine and make her outer self most appealing.
If you already know a Capricorn guy and you’re trying to get closer to him, the best and most effective way is through conversation that is intellectually charged and stimulating.
Figure out what he really likes about life, what he wants, and where he has goals to go in the future. Take that and start conversations that will gear toward those topics.
He’ll find you intriguing and probably want to get closer to you. Knowing that you understand his goals and his drive will make him feel simpatico with you which in essence could make him fall faster.
Traditionally Capricorn man likes to take his time to be sure about someone before he will commit his life and his heart. There are always exceptions though. You could try to be that exception.
Be the wittiest and intellectual woman he’s ever met. He will not be able to resist you. He prefers a woman who is really smart and is about something in her life. The lazy types that just “get by” aren’t really his speed.
Show him how driven you are and how motivated you can be when it comes to life and your own goals. It will turn him on and he’ll want to know more. The more you get him talking, the better
6. This Will Take Time…
It’s not just about turning him on with all that you know but it’s also about actually really understanding who he is as a person. He doesn’t want you to just listen to him talk.
He wants you to truly understand what he’s talking about. If he gets the idea that what he’s saying to you isn’t interesting you or that you’re letting it go in one ear and out the other, he’ll lose interest in you.
So if you want him to warm up to you and get closer, you’ll have to actually WANT to learn more about him and his interests. If you do not, there is no point in trying to capture this man’s heart.
He’s driven by high integrity and his morals will help him figure out your intention. You had better make sure your intention is pure or he will drop you like it’s hot. Be authentic!
I cannot stress this enough, you have to be absolutely yourself while you’re on this quest to love a Capricorn man. He will not put up with any fakeness in anyone and especially not from a woman he is considering getting close to.
7. The Secret To Getting Him To Fall…
The only true way to his heart is through his intellect. Do you want to win his love? You’re going to have to do a bit of work. This may not be quick and it may not be easy.
This is something that takes much effort and much inner gardening. Not just for you but for him as well. He knows what he wants and will accept nothing less. The thing is, you’ll have to figure out what that is.
You’re going to need to ask him lots of questions and listen intently to his responses. Absorb it and KNOW it. The kicker is, you never want to be who you are not.
If you find that he’s mentioning things that aren’t really like you, you may have to accept you aren’t what he’s looking for. Don’t ever try to be what you are not. He’ll see through it anyway.
Now, if you find that you’re connecting well with his inner core and you ARE what he’s looking for then, by all means, start doing what you can to show him that you are that woman.
The sooner you show him that you’re what he’s looking for, the sooner the courtship and romance can begin between the two of you. Just keep in mind that you shouldn’t commit unless you’re REALLY ready.
Few More Ways To Make A Capricorn Man Attracted To You
As you can see, getting a Capricorn man to fall for you is going to take some amount of effort. He isn’t always very straightforward, even if he believes himself to be.
Here are a few more ways to win a Capricorn man’s heart and make him yours:
- Demonstrate your hard work and ambition. This man really respects dilligence and ambition in others, and when you can show him that you are someone who deeply cares about their goals and is willing to put in the effort to achieve them, he will be more attracted to you.
- Your respect for traditional values. There is something in all Capricorn men that deeply respects traditional values and principles. He believes in carrying forward the wisdom and traditions of the past, and he will be attracted to someone who shares those values with him.
- Your honesty and authenticity. For a Capricorn man, honesty and authenticity are key factors in attraction and falling in love with a woman. The way to his heart is just to be true to yourself and to him, and not to resort to games and manipulation. If you want to be with him then it is best that you avoid acting like this at all costs.
- Show your warmth and caring nature. Despite the Capricorn man’s somewhat cool and often serious exterior, these men are often really drawn to women who are rather feminine and comfortable expressing their nurturing and caring side.
Sweet Words To Win A Capricorn Man’s Heart
It might be tough not knowing exactly what to say to a Capricorn man, but here are a few phrases that will absolutely win over his heart.
- “I’ve learned so much from you; your insights have truly enriched my life.”. This shows that you value his intellect and you’ve grown personally from the relationship.
- “Your commitment to excellence in everything you do challenges me to be a better person.”. It demonstrates that his influence has a positive effect on you and your personal growth.
- “I admire the way you balance ambition with a strong sense of responsibility.”. This acknowledges his ability to juggle his aspirations with his duties.
- “Your dreams matter to me, and I want to support you in achieving them.”. Offering support for his goals underscores your partnership and teamwork.
- “I treasure the quiet moments we share together—it’s where I truly feel the depth of our connection.”. It shows that you appreciate intimacy and the quieter side of your relationship.
- “You’ve worked so hard for what you have, and I respect the discipline you’ve shown on your journey.”. This gives him recognition for his efforts and the discipline he’s shown.
- “Let’s build a solid future together; I know with you by my side, we can accomplish anything we set our minds to.”. Suggesting a future together reflects a commitment to shared goals and values.
- “You don’t give your trust easily, and that makes me all the more honoured that you’ve given it to me.”. Recognize the importance he places on trust and how much you value his.
Saying any of these phrases will likely warm his heart in ways you never imaged before! Try them out and let me know how he reacted!
The 14 Words That Give Instant Youth to Your Relationship With a Capricorn Man
Have you ever heard of a 14-word elixir that can rejuvenate relationships with a Capricorn man and grant eternal love?
Just as communication is the most important aspect of a relationship…
One of the most important aspects of communication is knowing how to overcome disagreements and misunderstandings.
I knew many women who tragically failed with Capricorn guys just because they underestimated the importance of talks.
Some didn’t talk with them enough and some talked too much…
Others talked just enough, but they said a few wrong things here and there which made their lovers sulk and brood.
Let me tell you…
You never want to leave a Capricorn guy sulk because of something that you said.
It’s best to resolve any such conflict ASAP because his negativity could expand ad infinitum…
Until one day he just snaps and decides that you’re not the one for him and that it’s all over.
The worst part is that 9 out of 10 times with a Capricorn, women are not even aware that they’ve said something wrong…
Or missed saying something that he expected them to say.
He doesn’t give off any signals when he’s hurt or disappointed.
Instead, he usually just becomes quiet… but women never notice it. Even if they do, they never realize what to do in time.
That’s why whenever a disagreement occurs, it’s best to diffuse it with 14 words that could save your relationship.
Click here to learn the 14 words.
Sending you love,
Your friend and relationship astrologer,
Anna Kovach