Are you starting to really get into that smoldering Capricorn man but aren’t sure what a Capricorn man wants in a relationship? Perhaps these few tips can help you determine what a Capricorn man needs in a relationship.
Capricorn men are typically very well educated or self-taught in the areas of life they find interesting. He’ll also brush up on whatever he’d like to get involved in so that he can dive into his passion. That is how he is in relationships.
Capricorn men in relationships often seem as though they’re hard to reach or difficult to “get”. However, when you discover what a Capricorn man wants in a relationship, you’ll have the keys to your own success with him.
Keep reading to find out everything else you need to know about falling in love with a Capricorn guy.
Capricorn Men In Relationships — What Is He Like As A Boyfriend?
The Capricorn man may not be easy to win over, but once he does finally settle down into a relationship, he actually feels more able and free instead of tied down. He really doesn’t care much for wading into the dating pool, to be honest.
As a boyfriend, he feels he can be himself completely once he’s found his mate and can be fully immersed in the world of a serious relationship. He’s a bit different from many other signs.
He doesn’t avoid commitment like some men. He will still take his time, but only because he wants to make sure that the person to whom he commits himself is the right person to dedicate himself to.
It’s more of a self-protection thing than being picky or prudish. Though they are sometimes seen as prudes, they are far from it. He wants the security and safety that a relationship can provide.
What A Capricorn Man Wants In A Relationship — 5 Things He’s Looking For
Stability & Security
Capricorn men take love very seriously. They treat it just like it’s a business and that means lots of work, effort, and compromise. He wants a relationship that has these qualities in spades.
He will want to have a partnership that makes him strive and want to be a better person. Likewise, he wants to make a difference in his lady love’s life as well. There should be a mutual give and take.
This could make him a serial monogamist unless his moon gives him more of a proclivity for being a bit promiscuous. Otherwise, it’s not a common thing for the Capricorn male.
He wants to know that if he gets together with you, it’s going to work out forever if not long term. A Capricorn man isn’t interested in dating around for fun if there is no future in it. He thrives better when he has a partner supporting him and his goals in life.
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An Open-Minded Partner In The Bedroom
The Capricorn man is typically one who wants to please his partner. He will go above and beyond to make sure that you’re well satisfied in the bedroom. This man has a freaky side too, so if you’re into doing things “differently”, he’ll be into it.
He will at least try anything once. If you’ve got some fantasies, let him know. He’ll do what he can to accommodate you. This man loves to watch you squirm with pleasure and loves to be the one causing it.
As such, he’s going to require a partner who is open-minded and loves to play in the bedroom or elsewhere. Keep your mind open to trying new things, as you just may be surprised at how creative he can be.
It will turn him on when you come up with new things to try that he hasn’t thought of yet. Also, if you play along if he comes up with an idea, you’ll sink deeper into the passionate Capricorn’s desire.
There is nothing sexier than a man who is open-minded when it comes to sex. Even foreplay can be a new pastime for the two of you to have fun with. Why not give it a try? Show him what a treasure he has in you.
He’ll always show you how much he appreciates your touch and your care for his deepest desires. Sex is very important to a Capricorn man, so be sure that you engage as often as you can or that he will want.
He Wants To Take Care Of His Partner
If you are wondering if Capricorns are protective, look no further! It’s the ideal situation for a Capricorn when he finds a woman who doesn’t mind being taken care of. This isn’t to say you should be needy, but he’ll absolutely love to do things for you.
Capricorn man overprotectiveness is also something commonly seen with this zodiac sign. He has no problem being the domestic guy who cooks, cleans, takes care of the bills, and brings home most of the finances. That doesn’t mean you should be lazy and let him do it all.
It’s more fulfilling for him when he does these things for you, yet you still have a sense of drive and passion about the work that you do as well. Make sure you keep your eyes on some goals.
Feeling as though he’s a proper caretaker of the woman he loves is very important. It’s another one of those old-fashioned qualities that he has within. Don’t deny him that.
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Respect & Consideration
Even if the woman he is with has different goals than him, as long as she respects what his goals are and gives him plenty of support to do them, he’ll be happy. Of course, if the woman would be into the same type of business, that would be nice too.
He’s the type of guy you could absolutely start a business with and successfully run both the household and the company. If you are looking for the type of guy who can pull this off, Capricorn is your guy.
He’s a whiz when it comes to getting work done, getting organized, and making sure that everything is running smoothly. His partner will need to be able to run with this and optimize the success of the business.
He wants to be recognized for all that he does for his partner as well as all the hard work he puts in to make sure that everything will run smoothly on the road ahead.
Giving him props isn’t too hard, right? Of course, it isn’t. You can always find things to compliment him on. Even simple things like keeping the house clean or how he dresses will provide him with an appreciation for your gestures.
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He Wants Respect For His Boundaries
A Capricorn man will feel more assured and confident when he finally has the woman that he’s always desired in his life, and that woman will respect his need for personal space.
Sharing goals together or discussing what the future may hold will be a conversation that is likely to happen often with the Capricorn man. He’s very responsible and would like an equal partner, but he is a very private person, and it is crucial for his partner to recognize his need for solitude.
Even if you’re really independent, you should allow him to do things that he wants, and that doesn’t include you. This is one of the many important things that a Capricorn man wants in a relationship with you.
The right partner will have to be considerate in everything he does for the relationship and for the success of the future he and his lady love may have together.
Read also: What Does It Mean When A Capricorn Man Stares At You
3 Crucial Things Every Capricorn Man Needs In A Relationship
He Needs Loyalty
I mentioned security and stability, but there is also the loyalty factor. He will absolutely need his partner to be 100% loyal to him. What good are security and stability if loyalty isn’t there?
It all sort of goes hand in hand, really. Show him you’re there for him for the long haul, and he’ll do everything he can to provide you with a home that is comfortable, safe, and protected.
Capricorn men are one of the more responsible signs of the zodiac. They see life as a serious business that has to be constantly worked at. He will see the relationship as being this way as well.
This means he’ll always do whatever work is necessary to keep things thriving the way they should for success to come from it. If you land a Capricorn man, then you are truly lucky.
A Capricorn man in a relationship wants to prove to you that he’s your guy. He wants to be a gentleman and a romantic at heart. He wants you to know how much he values you by giving you the best care.
The Capricorn guy will always provide you with loyalty as long as you show him the same effort. He will not feel the need to stray or look elsewhere when he’s content with you.
Sharing The Same Values
A Capricorn man wants a partner who shares the same values and commitment to building a solid foundation in the relationship. He wants an equal relationship where you both take care of one another and are best friends, anchors, and partners for life. He typically isn’t looking for a quick roll in the hay.
The last thing he wants is a partner who doesn’t have the same views on life and commitment. It shows a lack of respect and integrity where he is concerned. Pulling yourself together and dreaming together will make him thrive.
He appreciates a partner who is dedicated to the relationship and with whom he can overcome challenges.
He Needs Practicality And Responsibility
A Capricorn man is responsible; he has received strong impressions from his parents about the need to live up to certain expectations in life. He is a bit pragmatic and measured in the ways that he responds.
He is very practical and needs to take action. A Capricorn man is looking for a partner who shares these traits. When practicality and activity combine, the urge to master material resources is usually present.
Contributing to a stable and organized life is a must. She is likely to have an innately serious and responsible nature, seeking to make the most of whatever resources she has at her disposal.
Being financially capable and responsible is also very much appreciated by a Capricorn man in a long-standing relationship.
How To Make A Capricorn Man Fall Deeply In Love
Capricorn men will gravitate more toward a woman who stands up for herself and chases her dreams, which will not only inspire them but turn them on as well.
He most likely will not settle for a woman who isn’t motivated to do something with her life to make it better. Women who do the basics to get by and spend the rest of their time on the couch will not turn him on.
Show him that he is not your priority. Show him that you can live without him and that you are happy with your life. He wants to be absolutely sure that you are independent, have your own passions in life, and will appreciate him for who he is.
Watching his wife be a big success inspires him to also do all he can to be successful. It’s the motivation for him to be better than he was before as well as what he will be later on down the line.
FAQ On A Capricorn Man Wants In A Woman
Are you struggling to figure out what to do about what your Capricorn man wants in the relationship? Well, luckily for you I have compiled questions that might come up in your relationship. Hopefully, this can help you navigate your relationship with your Capricorn man.
What Kind Of Lover Is A Capricorn Man?
A Capricorn man, as a lover, is open to his partner in terms of providing the best sexual experience. He wants to take the lead in the bedroom, but he’s not above hearing your deepest fantasies, so he can work at trying to fulfill them in any way that he can.
When a Capricorn man really loves his woman, they can have some of the most fulfilling sex out there!
Are Capricorns Loyal In Relationships?
Capricorn men are loyal, reliable, and responsible in relationships. His loyalty makes him an amazing companion.
Capricorn is considered to be the most loyal sign of the zodiac. He may keep his distance when first meeting someone, but once his confidence is built, he cares. A Capricorn man, as a boyfriend, is very attentive to his girlfriend’s needs.
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I really would like to learn more on how to deal with my Capricorn lover and understand him well. This dude has a teribble mood swings.
I’m a virgo, and the chemistry between a cap and virgo is incredible. Downside is 3 caps have broken my heart. Same with a taurus. I’m done with fellow earth signs. Scorpio is the way to go. Not hot and cold, passionate, not boring and always answer a text or text first. Good luck to you cap lovers out there.
Thank you for this article. I’m an Aries woman and have been married to a cap man for 4 yrs. we have a 3 yr old. I agree with the majority of the article. However we both have very strong personalities and we constantly fight. We do not have sex like we used to in our first year. We have sex maybe 4x a year. The desire is not there. I feel like he is not as sexually curious likes the other caps I’ve been with. Other than that everything else is accurate.
Hi Dj!
You are so very welcome. How lovely for you to reach out. Yes you two are head strong and can definitely bump heads on different ideas or issues. If the desire isn’t there, you can pick up the pace again by simply trying new things or romancing him back to the way things kind of were with you two before. Remind him of how good it was and how hot it was. Wear some sexy clothes or lingerie for him and just tempt him with your passion. I think you can do it! You can also check out my series “Capricorn Man Secrets” as it will help give you more useful tips.
Hm, i’m a capricorn sun, and capricorn moon man, and i found everything so perfect in this article
Hi again Prabir!
Thank you for your feedback. I definitely appreciate it.
Hi, question my ex boyfriend was a capricorn. 16 years ago we lost communication and now he finds me and make friends with me but he has a girlfriend, but he cant leave his girlfriend he even said he stills like me. I dont know what his purpose now and its really bothers me:(
Hi Shiela!
If he has a girlfriend and he cannot leave her then you two are dead in the water unless you’re good with being the other woman. If you aren’t then you need to accept it’s just a friendship and move on. Let go and let nature take it’s course. If he’s meant to be back in life with you then he will leave her if not, he’s not yours. I wish you all the very best!
Hello, I meet Capricorn men in May, I’m a Virgo woman. we were dating for a couple of months and had sex, the connection was incredible! He always showed interest in me, and I usually have a hard time having feelings for someone. The last time we went out we had a little discussion. I told him I had never been with someone before, he bring the conversation about his exes! He says that he loves them and that he will love them for life, he also mentioned that he thinks his ex is the one! My heart broke at that moment. I just told him that I was at a point in life where I did not need a man and did not want a relationship. He told me that if we stayed as friends. That same night we slept together and I suggest to him to stop seeing each other, & he answered me with a big No, that we are going to continue seeing each other, and he hugs me from the back and kisses me. Later the next morning I showed zero interest in him. He took me home and said goodbye to him, cutting off all kinds of communication. I never told him that I was interested in him. My first time was with him, and he told me that if I had told him from the beginning that I was a virgin, everything would have been different. We stopped talking a week ago! Advice?
Hi Victoria G!
I don’t really know what you want out of this. You told him you aren’t interested, you called it off, and said goodbye. That means it’s done and over. I’m sorry you gave up your 1st time to someone you didn’t really care about. It’s up to you to figure out how you really feel about that but it’s not going to change anything honey. If you stopped talking a week ago, it’s because you initiated the break. If you changed your mind then you can reach out to him otherwise, do some meditation and healing work on yourself. Be gentle with yourself sweetheart. You need it!
Hi. Got in touch with my Capricorn boyfriend in January via social media after 15 years. He is a collegue of mine from primary school. In primary school I had a crush on him, turns out he liked me too back then. He was the one to ask me if I wanted a relationship with him and I happily agreed. I am a January Capricorn, he is a December Capricorn. I felt so drawn to him. So far, we have had a lot of fights related to bedroom and intimacy. He feels frustrated that sometimes I fail to meet his expectations in that area and he feels disappointed (his own words). He has communicated with me a lot and told what he likes and expects, but sometimes I just don’t perform at the level he wants. He kinda expects the same in return (he pleases me a lot, every single time). After every argument we have a talk on how to fix things, but when he notices that I repeat some mistakes several times after we had talked about it and he wouldn’t expect me to repeat them again, he gets even more upset and disappointed than he was after the first argument. He said I don’t put in enough work/effort/interest. Told him that’s not true. He said he would prefer if we fought about something new instead of fighting about the same thing every time. I think my only option now is to try and not repeat the same mistake again, ever. In the first months, he was so thrilled (our first date lasted a whole day and it was a lot of fun). Now, every time I ask him to do something similar, he declines, says he would prefer to rather stay indoors and overall he puts in less effort in the relationship, compared to the first months. It’s true he is an indoors person and more of an introverted guy. But several times after we had a fight, he gave me the silent treatment (both in person and when I texted him during the day). Turned very cold and distant. Is his behavior expected (based on his zodiac sign) or is he simply treating me worse than most Capricorn men would treat their lover? Is it because of the fact that I triggered him? What can I do to make this relationship right? How can I fix this? I want stability and peace in a relationship.